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I can understand the problem some have with various churches. I see a lot of churches that abuse their members. They set rules that have nothing to do with the Bible. Many are all over the place.

Fortunately, we have God's Word. His Word tells us exactly how to be saved, and how to live the life He has given us on this earth. I know that a lot of people love sin more than they love God, and I get that. Sin has a very strong allure.

I also understand your feelings that other religions should have some value. I have also studied many different religions, more when I was much younger, but 1 or 2 more recently. However, I believe the Bible above all else.

I think of it as a freeway, with hundreds of lanes. One lane goes to heaven, and all of the rest, unfortunately, go elsewhere. Jesus spoke of a wide gate and a narrow gate, where all kinds of people will rush through the wide gate, but only a few will go through the narrow gate. We all have the opportunity to make our own choices. God does not force us into a relationship with Him, and He does not force us to love Him, or choose Him. He desperately wants us to, but he will never force anyone to do so.

I have to wonder about what punishment will look like for the unrepentant sinner. We have the image of the parable of Lazarus and the rich man, and that implies that is probably where the idea of hell comes from. However, it appears that the man's sons are still living on earth while he is being punished, so that implies that he was not yet sentenced in final judgement.

Maybe that is like jail for a man awaiting arraignment? I don't know, and I have no desire to find out.

I did have a dream/daydream ..... I really don't know. However, I was pondering the topic, and I had this extremely real dream, of a man who was condemned to being cast out of the presence of God. The man considered it to be a good thing, because he wanted nothing to do with God, and so he was pleased, and figured he had beaten God. However, what the man never considered was that nothing exists outside of God, and so the man was cast out into nothing ...... no light ... no dark ..... no sound .... no voice .... no feeling .... no one for company ....... just absolutely nothing .... not even a voice with which to scream out in rage or horror.

This dream was absolutely horrifying. It was scarier, by a factor of ..... oh ...a million, than any other dream I have ever had. The sinner got what he wanted ... no more interference from God ..... but that came with a price ..... and that price was nothing. Absolute nothingness.

If this is how things go for unrepentant sinners ... well ..... this is why I pray for people. That dream shook me to my core.

So, I believe that the unrepentant sinner will go from his death to punishment in Hades. I believe that this punishment will depend upon just how sinful he was on earth. Then comes the Judgement, and I believe that the person who rejects God on earth will again do so at judgement. It is at that point that God casts the sinner out, and possibly into some remote corner of hell, maybe into a scenario I stated above. God finishes Judgement, and I believe that the soul can only last for so long outside of God's presence, so (again, this is just my belief/feeling) it begins to eventually fade to nothing. Once this happens to all of the souls in hell, it is cast into the fire, and burned up forever.

Once the unrepentant souls are cast in the fire, in Revelation, then the new earth and new heaven are created. (and I believe, again, just my belief, that hell is destroyed. From what I understand, the word in the Bible that is translated "forever" is often a word that really means "till the end of the age, as long as the age lasts") The creation of a new heaven and a new earth would seem to me to be the end of the former age.

Anyway, I could be completely wrong about this all, but I'll just put it out here for whatever it's worth. I do know this for sure, hell will not be some happy place. The idea that hell will be some party for the "cool people" is pretty ridiculous when you stop and think about it. Hell will be hell for those who wind up there. It will be a punishment appropriate for being an enemy of God. I thank God that he put His message in front of me so many times that it finally sunk in, and that He saw fit, for some reason, to rescue me from myself, and my sins.


Micah 6:8; He has shown you, O mortal, what is good. And what does the Lord require of you? To act justly and to love mercy, and to walk humbly with your God.

John 14:19 Jesus said: Because I live, you also will live.
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I also will say this, God doesn't care if we go to a particular church, or denomination. He wants us to read His Word, to accept Christ as our Lord and Savior, repent of our sins, and obey Him. He also wants us to humble ourselves, and accept that we cannot do enough to gain salvation on our own. Our "good deeds" are never enough. We need to leave our sins at the foot of the cross.

A Christian should want to obey God, and should be willing to ask God for His help in doing so. We obey God not because it is the right thing to do, but because it is the right thing for us to do.

As far as Jesus, I want to ask you to think about this. God loved you so much, that He sent His Son, Jesus Christ, to come to this earth, to be born a human being, to live a sin free life, and to be the perfect sacrifice for our sins, yours and mine. Jesus, God in man's flesh, was sentenced to die on the cross. He was tortured, relentlessly. He was abused for the pleasure of His guards. He was beaten half to death. He was then hung on the cross in such a way as to extend His dying, in the most painful way possible. He was hung on that cross naked, in front of His mother and at least one friend. He was tormented as he hung there. God took all of the sins of mankind, from Adam through the end of this earth, and piled them on top of Jesus Christ. Think about that for a minute .... the man who was perfect, and sinless, whose very nature abhors sin, had the sins of all time piled on Him. God hates sin, and since Jesus was laden down with man's sins, well, God refused to look upon Him anymore. This is when Jesus cried out in His agony, "Father, why have you forsaken me?" Then he died, with all of that repugnant sin piled upon Him. He essentially became sin, so that when He died, our sins could die with Him.

They He was resurrected 3 days later. He did so to defeat sin, and death, so that we too could defeat sin and death through Him.

God didn't just say "Do as I say, or else." He also gave us a perfect way out of sin, and out of death. That way is Jesus Christ. Many other religions have different ideas, but there is only 1 perfect way, only 1 way that works, and that way is Jesus Christ. I absolutely and completely believe that with every ounce of my being. I hope that you will find your way to faith as well. Ask God. He does answer, if we come before Him humbly seeking Him.


Micah 6:8; He has shown you, O mortal, what is good. And what does the Lord require of you? To act justly and to love mercy, and to walk humbly with your God.

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See, it's not about "religion" to me. It is about a personal relationship with God.

I believe that those who truly have a strong personal relationship with God are less likely to do some of these horrible things we see happening in the world today. Why? Because we know that these are not the things God wants for us. We do our best to obey God's Commandments, not because we "have to", but because we want to. It's the right thing to do, and more importantly, it is the right thing for us to do as Christians.

That is the difference. You see a shaming process, that tells us what we cannot do. What I see is a relationship with God, who showed ME so much love, that he sent Jesus Christ to suffer and die upon the cross, for MY sins. God tells me how to live, because it is the right way for me to live. He wants me to avoid sin, because that is what's best for me. He forgives my sins, because I cannot be atoned on my own.

I am not ashamed. The gospel of Jesus Christ brings salvation to everyone who believes. (Romans 1:16)

That is great that you have a personal relationship with God. I am actually a little bit jealous of that because I have difficulty understanding what you mean by it. Do you talk to God? Does God talk to you? Has he revealed himself to you in some unmistakable way? Are you implying that the voice in your head/subconscious mind is actually God? When I was younger, I did indeed try to reach out to God and to be quite blunt, never got anywhere with that. There were no lines of communication. It is all faith and no evidence, which bothers me, because I am a 'show me' kind of guy. I even tried praying before and some of those prayers were indeed answered. However, it seemed as if the prayers were answered at about the same rate that they would have been had I never prayed in the first place.

My intent was never to get into a debate with you about whether and which God exists, bible passages, or any of that. My point was that most people (and this includes many Christians-in-name-only who don't go to church, don't read the Bible, and make no effort to follow Jesus's teachings) have experiences that are more similar to mine than they are to yours. So if you try to get someone to change their behavior because that is what your interpretation of what God wants, the vast majority will just kind of roll their eyes at you. There has to be at least some tangible benefit to society and ideally to the individual as well (if you want people to actually change their behavior).

I believe that a healthy and happy person almost never does some of these horrible things we see happening in the world today. Healthy and happy people think in more intelligent ways (often in more benevolent ways, like the area of the brain responsible for uplifting thoughts literally grows with good and healthy habits), they can get what they want in life without resorting to violent and/or sexual crimes, and on and on it goes. It seems like almost everyone has their own vices, but take a man who is in a horrible place in life and acts accordingly, and have him make the following changes:

1. If he is using any hardcore drugs, he must stop. No exceptions.

2. If he watches hardcore porn, he must stop. No exceptions.

3. If he plays video games, watches TV, uses social media, and uses the internet excessively, he must cut down to a reasonable level that does not majorly interfere with the rest of life. This all plays together. Is a few hours of these things combined per day such a bad thing? Probably not. But a few hours each per day of video games, TV, social media usage, and general web surfing is a major problem. It's not that uncommon either.

4. If he is not exercising regularly, he must start. Some basic cardio and weight training (or lifestyle equivalent), starting very easy and light and progressing from there, is fine. Exercise is not just healthy for the body, it is healthy for the mind. Literally exercise has shown to involve brain neuroregeneration.

5. If he is eating an unhealthy diet, he must clean this up. Part of this is due to the fact that healthy food has more/better nutrients and such for optimal functioning of the body. The other half of this, which is less understood, is that many highly refined junk foods have a sort of drug-like effect on the body (e.g. sugar rush which is really the same thing as a dopamine spike which is basically the common denominator in all addictive things, whether they be drugs, social media, or a can of pop).

6. He should have something to get up to. In practice this means a job or business or schooling. Loitering around all day is bad for the mind.

7. Sleep should be prioritized; healthy adults generally need about 6-8 hours of high-quality sleep (waking without an alarm clock) or about 5-7 hours at night with a short nap in the afternoon (often only 15-20 minutes in a healthy sleep cycle). The amount that is needed is usually overstated due to how many people ruin their sleep by artificially regulating it e.g. with alcohol, sleep medications, alarm clocks, etc. and due to the accumulation of sleep debt. Healthy sleep is necessary for a healthy mind yet very few people understand zeitgebers and other factors that affect timing, duration, and quality of sleep.

Now how many people do you know that follow all of this? I'd bet not many. But any person who follows this (stops using drugs, stops watching porn, limits 'screen exposure', exercises regularly, has a healthy diet and healthy sleep) will dramatically turn his/her life around for the better. If someone happens to be following this all already, their life is very likely to already be in good order. They're probably a healthy happy person that we're not even worried about in the first place.

Keeping this thread in mind in regards to violence against women:

One person pointed out that porn is highly unrealistic and leads to warped views on how easy sex is to get. Then some guys get frustrated at their lack of progress and act out accordingly. Yeah that's probably a good point. Heck I am a very looking guy and you know how many times I've been propositioned for sex by a stranger during the day, with no alcohol involved? Oh yeah, never

Another pointed out the highly aggressive nature of today's mainstream porn and how kids watch this stuff from very early age and never stop watching it. Again this leads to warped and even worse, sinister views. An excellent point, and I agree it's a problem.

I just add onto this that it's not always such a clear cut, direct thing. Oh this person saw this as a kid and he acted out in that specific way when he got older. It is usually not such an obvious thing. It is more the effect on the brain overall, and again, since all young men watch it, this affects all of them. It's an addicted society (again with the caveat that porn is only one of many factors).

I think if you have a generally healthier and happier society, you'll have less crime. Young people would stop behaving in such bizarre ways. You wouldn't need 'safe spaces' on college campuses, because a mentally healthy young man should not easily have his feelings hurt. On and on it goes (but there's a limit to how much I'm willing to type)-- all this stuff ties in together.

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When I was younger, I did indeed try to reach out to God and to be quite blunt, never got anywhere with that. There were no lines of communication. It is all faith and no evidence, which bothers me, because I am a 'show me' kind of guy.




Like the Businessman who is interviewing others for a certain position in which he needs a particular trait and thought process, God is looking for people of faith. It is important to Him. As Jesus told Thomas, who after seeing the risen Jesus with wounds and all, "Because you have seen me, you have believed; blessed are those who have not seen and yet have believed."

In His search for men of faith, God has put it out there to believe or not believe for now. Once He reveals Himself, faith ends.

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The only reason that bit about religion/God was included in that post was as a way to connect to those who are not inclined to change their thinking based on man's interpretation of religious texts, and to provide a reasonable alternative viewpoint as to the causes of some of the negatives in today's society. I'm not going to get into the whole, 'God thinks this, this is why God does that, God works in mysterious ways' thing. Inevitably it goes nowhere.

I know you agree with me on the lifestyle factors that I laid out in that post. You've said as much in another thread where I made a similar albeit shorter post. So whether someone gets to a better lifestyle through religious means or not probably doesn't matter as much as that they do it somehow.

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Well I wasn't looking to make a believer of you, I was just trying to provide a reasonable alternative viewpoint to your statement from my point of view. I have no clue why God is looking for faith and why it seems so important to Him.

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Not touchy at all. Friendly discussion.

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Man you said a mouth full willynilly I believe there is like a purgatory for lack of a better word...for those that are truly evil souls....Ive read the Bible more times then I can count and have struggled with Jesus being the only way to heaven.

While I believe in Jesus and what he said, mostly...I just cant wrap my head around someone who lived a good moral life would be sent off to hell for not accepting his word as final say while on this planet.

Now if you die and youre standing there before them and they want acceptance or hell?? well holy crap is that late and why would they want you after you lived your life here on earth one way then get there and accept them.

I read all that you wrote Y-town....and you have no idea how hard it is for me to like/believe what Jesus said but it falls short for me when someone like Gandhi would go to hell saywhat for not believing...and I dont think for one second hell would be where the cool people would hang out...no hell would be miserable I'm sure of that much.

I just cant understand why if God spoke to early people...why wouldnt he do it again? Why would they go 2000 and more years since Jesus to show SOMETHING? Now if you get into the end times stuff I guess they are showing....man I better stop here...this could turn into a novel.

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For what it's worth, I wouldn't say that I'm a believer or a non-believer. I have not made up my mind on whether and to what extent a God/creator/superintelligence has shaped this world. I suppose that makes me a non-believer by default but I have no desire to talk people out of religious points of view that they connect with or that make them happy. Sitting on the fence isn't necessarily such a bad thing wink

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Well as far as not having made up your mind, I am sure God is awaiting your decision with bated breath.

If you do find a way to talk people out of their faith, it would be interesting to hear because I would think they never really had faith to begin with.

You would have to talk long and hard to convince me, as I travel from one room in the house to another, that my faith in there being breathable air in the next room was wrong.

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I have faith...just not very sure its in the Christian way...and no way in my mind are we here by accident...no matter how that developed. But man is it hard for ME to buy in to these religions...others dont feel that way...I envy that in a way..but I'll find out soon enough...and if I'm not good enough oh well snuff my soul out and I wont know anyway.

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If you come to understand that "Religion" is a man made thang, it might give you a different perspective when you are thinking of your God.

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OK, I am finally home, and I will try to get through your questions.

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That is great that you have a personal relationship with God. I am actually a little bit jealous of that because I have difficulty understanding what you mean by it. Do you talk to God? Does God talk to you? Has he revealed himself to you in some unmistakable way? Are you implying that the voice in your head/subconscious mind is actually God? When I was younger, I did indeed try to reach out to God and to be quite blunt, never got anywhere with that. There were no lines of communication. It is all faith and no evidence, which bothers me, because I am a 'show me' kind of guy. I even tried praying before and some of those prayers were indeed answered. However, it seemed as if the prayers were answered at about the same rate that they would have been had I never prayed in the first place.


I have told this story before, but my communication with God is not a spoken word, where I hear His voice audibly.

Rather, I feel His voice. I have told the story many times of how I was ready to kill myself because of bad reaction to a medication my doctor gave me. I was freaking out, sweating like crazy, and truly going insane, The medication really had a horrible effect on me. (it turns out that I am very allergic to this particular medication) Anyway, at the depths of my despair, and with anger raging within me, and just generally freaking out, I called out to God, yelling, swearing at Him ..... I was not very nice.

I then felt this presence. That is the only way to describe it. This incredible calm came over me, and I was back to normal in a heartbeat. I .. well, I can only describe it as feeling God telling me that everything was going to be OK, and that He wanted me to follow Him.

It was the single most powerful experience of my entire life.

It is like that when God answers one of my prayers. (It doesn't happen every time. Not every prayer requires God to speak to me, and not every answer has to be verbal, or an approximation)

I had problems, as I was in deep financial problems due to my medical situation, and not having any insurance for almost 2 years. I finally decided to turn my finances over to God. Miraculous things started happening. (and I can prove every one of these) My long term disability was going to cut off the month before my Social Security started, and without medical insurance, I was going to be in trouble. The woman with the insurance company said that she would check to see if there was anything they could do. I figured that was just lip service, but I just felt God say not to worry ..... so I didn't.

The woman from the insurance company called me back, and said that she did some checking into the master policy and she found that mine had a rider, that covered the transition period from insurance to Social Security. She said that she had never seen a policy with it ever before, but mine somehow had it, so she sent me a check fir 3 months of insurance.

My father turned up, after being missing from the lives of myself and my brothers. I felt God tell me to forgive him, but I resisted. I continued to feel this need to forgive him, and so I decided that I should, as we are to forgive if we are to be forgiven.

My dad has done well for himself, and he came up for a visit, and sent me and my brother each a rather sizable check. I had no thought of even seeing my father ever again.

There was another bill that I was unsure of how I was going to be able to pay. I prayed over it, and felt God say that it was taken care of. I sent the insurance company a letter, explaining my situation, and asked if there was any way I could arrange a payment plan with them. I got a call from the office manager for the hospital, and she told me that she received my letter, but that they have no way of setting up payments. I started to say "OK I under ..." but she interrupted me and said, "I don't know why I am going to do this, because I have never done this before for anyone, but i am going to forgive your debt with our company. You don't owe us anything, and I will make sure your file is updated as paid." Mind .... blown.

There have been others as well. I asked God to take care of things for me, and He has never failed. To the contrary, He has succeeded in ways that I could never have imagined.

I have prayed to God for many other things as well, and have felt Him leading me in certain directions that I never expected.

I started reading my Bible regularly, and I have found too many times to count that I have had a problem, and that problem has an answer in what I read that same day. It is often downright astonishing. I started looking into things with the UM church, like what opportunities for service there were .... and saw things like Lay Servant, Lay Speaker, and such .... and one day I went to my Pastor with a Bible question, (as I had done a few times) and he answered it, and we got into a theological discussion, where I told him of my dream of the sinner's punishment, and he said to me, out of the blue, that he wanted me to take the classes for Lay Servant and Speaker. We had never discussed it. I had never expressed a desire to do such a thing. You can call it coincidence, but I feel that God set me in a certain direction.

I don't believe that God always answers with words. He also does not always give me what I want, or ask for. Sometimes he gives me something completely different, and sometimes something so much better that I never even considered it.

Anyway, I have found that the deeper in my faith I have gone, the more often these "incredible coincidences" happen. I think that God speaks in a variety of ways, and get His point across quite well, when He wants to.

I also know that it has happened more and more frequently as I have given myself over to Him more and more, and as I have studied His Holy Word more and more.

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My intent was never to get into a debate with you about whether and which God exists, bible passages, or any of that. My point was that most people (and this includes many Christians-in-name-only who don't go to church, don't read the Bible, and make no effort to follow Jesus's teachings) have experiences that are more similar to mine than they are to yours. So if you try to get someone to change their behavior because that is what your interpretation of what God wants, the vast majority will just kind of roll their eyes at you. There has to be at least some tangible benefit to society and ideally to the individual as well (if you want people to actually change their behavior).


I believe that the reason people have experiences that are closer to yours is that they do not give themselves over to God. They offer lip service to asking for forgiveness, and so forth, but live lives that are identical to every other hell bound sinner. They make no attempt to serve God. They place their lives, and their sins, above God, and so God shuts them off. Why would God waste His time on someone who is going to do things in such a way that it leads others astray? Why give the sinner a miracle, then they flaunt their sins in God's face? God wants all of us, not just a little bit. He doesn't want us to "stick a toe in" and see how the water is, He wants us to jump in head first, and trust Him. Speaking for myself, I could feel my faith growing more and more and I got into God's Word on a daily basis. I started reading the Bible every single day, and sometimes 2 or 3 times/day. I found answers to my problems and questions appearing with remarkable regularity, and clarity. You have to take the steps to come to God. He could force you to do so ..... that would be well within the powers of the One who created everything ..... but He wants us to choose Him. He wants us to want to be with Him, and to Love Him. He wants us to rely upon Him for everything. If we accept Christ as our Lord and Savior, and turn our lives over to Him, then He helps us in ways we cannot imagine. However, sometimes the ways God chooses are not the things we asked for. Using the company I spoke of above as an example, in that case I asked God for help, and wanted a payment plan. God took care of the whole thing. God can do amazing things when we let Him. We run into problems when we decide that we know better than the immortal, omniscient God who created us all.

As far as interpretations of what God wants, the Bible is really clear on most things. In the early days, after leaving Eden, God wanted us to love and obey Him, and trust in Him for salvation. However, man thought differently, and in their arrogance, told God that they wanted rules to follow so that they could do it for themselves. So, God gave us the 10 Commandments, knowing that it was a perfect Law for imperfect beings, and using it to show us that we cannot hope to be sanctified by the Law. None of us can be. All God wanted was for us to come to Him, and ask for His help. Of course, those people, like people today, were prideful, and unwilling to accept that they cannot do everything for themselves, so they continued to try the Law, and continued to fail.

As far as the Law, the 10 Commandments, the reason that God gave us these Laws, is because they are good for us. Every single one of the Laws is beneficial for man. I would argue that each one is more beneficial for man than their opposite. However, people will roll their eyes at that too. People have been rolling their eyes at God, and willfully disobeying Him since the beginning of recorded history. It is no surprise that it continues today. However, God still loves us, and still wants us to be with Him, in fellowship, and in love and peace and joy. However, we have to choose it, and the way we choose it is to turn our lives over to Almighty God, who created us and everything else in the universe. We can choose otherwise, and God will never force us to choose Him, but when we choose otherwise, we are asking God to just leave us alone. So, He does. He doesn't force any of us to come to Him. It is always our choice.

I am not going to quote the rest. You have some nice ideas as far as how people should act, but what reason do they have to do so, if not God? They can choose to behave, but they often get the things they want far easier by not behaving as we might wish.

I believe that this world is a fallen, evil world. We have people in it who love evil, and who worship evil. They worship their lusts. They worship power. They worship money. They covet everything other people have. They not only want everything, but they want it today. They lie about their friends, co-workers, neighbors, and anyone else they can think of. If thoughts could kill, many would be murderers many times over. Evil is running rampant in this world today. "Easy sin" is the prime motivator. Far to often, instead of making a stand against these sinful actions and attitudes, we just fade back, and fit in. Many tell us that we don't dare bring faith into the public arena, saying that it has no place there. If there is one thing we need more of today it is faith in Jesus Christ, and the saving atonement of the cross.

I definitely agree with you about the way many people who call themselves Christians look at their faith these days ..... with some lukewarm faith, that is there as long as it is convenient, and doesn't get in the way of the rest of their lives .....

When we look at the lives of 2 people, one supposedly a Christian, and the other an atheist secularist, and we cannot tell the difference in any observable way, then I agree, there is a major problem. I truly fear that there are going to be a lot fo Christians who are going to be horribly surprised on Judgement Day, when Jesus does just as He promised, and spits them out for being lukewarm. Jesus doesn't want "almost saved" people. He wants people on fire with their Faith, and who want others to have what they have. I know that I drive some people nuts on this board, but I want them to truly know God, and I want them to be saved. The world encourages, and drives people in the direction opposite of God. What the world offers ends the very moment we draw our final breath, whether that is in 50 years, or 5 seconds. God offers us everything good, through Jesus Christ. It's all paid for, all we have to do is choose to accept it.

Let me add that I appreciate the opportunity to discuss this with you in a civil manner.


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Man you said a mouth full willynilly I believe there is like a purgatory for lack of a better word...for those that are truly evil souls....Ive read the Bible more times then I can count and have struggled with Jesus being the only way to heaven.

While I believe in Jesus and what he said, mostly...I just cant wrap my head around someone who lived a good moral life would be sent off to hell for not accepting his word as final say while on this planet.

Now if you die and youre standing there before them and they want acceptance or hell?? well holy crap is that late and why would they want you after you lived your life here on earth one way then get there and accept them.

I read all that you wrote Y-town....and you have no idea how hard it is for me to like/believe what Jesus said but it falls short for me when someone like Gandhi would go to hell saywhat for not believing...and I dont think for one second hell would be where the cool people would hang out...no hell would be miserable I'm sure of that much.

I just cant understand why if God spoke to early people...why wouldnt he do it again? Why would they go 2000 and more years since Jesus to show SOMETHING? Now if you get into the end times stuff I guess they are showing....man I better stop here...this could turn into a novel.


Let me ask you a question.

If you were God, Almighty and loving, all powerful and just, with all being essential aspects of who you are, and you have a rebellious creation, what would you do with it?

I know what I would have done. *Flush* Time to start over.

God didn't do that, though, He gave us every opportunity to be redeemed through the blood of His Son, Jesus Christ, who he sent to this earth to be a perfect and sanctified sacrifice for our sins, and to take our punishment for us.

God sent His Son to die for us. Imagine if you had sent your son to die for the world. Would you have some rules to follow, since he did lay down his life and all?

I would.

Gandhi, for all the good he did, basically said that the sacrifice of Jesus Christ did not matter. He said to God, sorry, but I am going to tell people that your Son simply did not matter.

Now, again, put yourself in God's shoes. You sent your only son, to die, a torturous and humiliating death on a cross, to take away the sins of the world,and you have someone who says that his sacrifice didn't matter, and that we can go to paradise through other means.

That is essentially what Gandhi said.

Is it any wonder that God would condemn him?

As far as why God would go 2000 years since Christ without saying "something" do us ... it's because Christ already did the talking upon that cross. We have God's Holy Word, and deep down inside, we have this gnawing feeling, even if we try to suppress it, that it's all true ... even those who say they don't believe it. (/all)

God sent His Holy Spirit to be with us, following the ascension of Jesus Christ to the right hand of God. We have His Holy Spirit, and that is God's voice in this world for now. We either choose to listen ..... or we choose not to listen.

Oh, and I am sorry for the even longer reply I posted before this one. crazy If I have one talent, I can write ........ in volume. lol


Micah 6:8; He has shown you, O mortal, what is good. And what does the Lord require of you? To act justly and to love mercy, and to walk humbly with your God.

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Thanks for the response to some pretty tricky questions, Ytown. You do not drive me nuts on here. I may not always agree with things you write but appreciate you sharing your experiences in a meaningful and thought-provoking way.

I found the comments about the Ten Commandments pretty interesting. If we can temporarily put aside the bit about other gods and all that implies, I happen to think the Ten Commandments are a pretty good guideline to follow! Don't murder, don't commit adultery, don't steal, don't lie, covet, etc. I certainly believe in following all of that, as do many people I know (both religious and non-religious).

The sabbath day is another interesting one. This is something I learned in my younger days of being an athlete, that at least one (and preferably more) day per week has to be an off-day, meaning no strenuous exercise at all. In fact very hard stuff should really be reserved for no more than a few days a week, with a couple easier days thrown in there in addition to an off day or two. A similar thing can be said for work/employment-- work 7 days a week and most people will burn out rather quickly.

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Lot of experts on porn in this thread. Just saying.

BTW, the sooner mankind gets over this god fantasy, the better off we will be.


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I found the comments about the Ten Commandments pretty interesting. If we can temporarily put aside the bit about other gods and all that implies, I happen to think the Ten Commandments are a pretty good guideline to follow! Don't murder, don't commit adultery, don't steal, don't lie, covet, etc. I certainly believe in following all of that, as do many people I know (both religious and non-religious).


The problem is that people do not follow the 10 Commandments.

The 1st 4 Commandments deal mainly with man and his relationship with God.

Do not have any gods before God
Do not make any idols
Do not take the name of God in vain
Remember the Sabbath, to keep it Holy


God them moves onto man's relationship with his fellow man:

Honor your mother and father.
Do not murder
Do not commit adultery
Do not steal
Do not lie about your neighbor
Do not covet your neighbor's belongings

We habitually thrash the 10 Commandments. All of them. Especially if we use the method of examining our behavior that Jesus used.

Jesus said that a man who lusts after a woman commits adultery with her in his mind. Why is this important? Because it devalues the other person, and it devalues any relationship they may be in. It is a form of covetousness.

Jesus said that a man who hates his brother murders him in his mind. How many times have we thought about someone having an unfortunate accident ..... or even strangling someone in some "funny" way .... (or some do so in a very serious manner) This behavior damages our relationships, even if we never act on these fantasies.

Do not steal is obvious. In the time of Jesus, a poor man could go into someone's vineyard and eat his fill. This was not considered stealing. However, when a man steals from another, doing so not out of need, but because he is jealous of the belongings of another, or because he just doesn't care about their property rights. This happens frequently in today's world. People steal music, and don't care. They take supplies from work, and, well, that's fair. People see a mistake on a bill that is in their favor, and say nothing. These are all forms of stealing. They all damage our relationship with others. These are not as egregious as pulling a gun on someone, but they do damage the way we relate to others, and if we can excuse a "small" theft against one person, it becomes easy to do the same against another.

In our society, we lie about people all the time. It is amazing at how vicious people can be about one another, telling lies in order to get ahead, get a certain person to date, and just to tear down someone else. This really is a form of murder, as it can kills the reputation of the person being lied about. There is an axiom that says that a lie gets halfway around the world before the truth has a chance to get its pants on.

We covet all the time. Our advertising is built upon coveting the things that belong to others. Look at the primaries right now. We currently have a political campaign that is all covetousness. "It's not fair that they have what you don't, so you should have their stuff." This is rampant today.

Our society really does not believe in following the 10 Commandments, and it is getting worse as time goes on, not better. Now I am not saying this is true of every single person, but ask yourself how many people you know who do these things, and it is perfectly acceptable to others.

We probably couldn't even hope to obey the last 6 Commandments, let alone all 10. In fact, I bet that even the very best of us break these Commandments each and every day at some point.

Even if we only use these as the "Commandments", we're in trouble.

However, then add in 1-4, (and Jesus is the Sabbath rest of the believer, so we are not required to follow that Commandment in the way many think of it) and we are in desperate trouble.

This shows why we need a Savior. Thank God that He sent Jesus Christ to save us from ourselves.


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Let's start with the idea of faith. I'm going to quote 40 here, and this seems to be a fairly common viewpoint from religious people. Keep this in mind:

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Like the Businessman who is interviewing others for a certain position in which he needs a particular trait and thought process, God is looking for people of faith. It is important to Him. As Jesus told Thomas, who after seeing the risen Jesus with wounds and all, "Because you have seen me, you have believed; blessed are those who have not seen and yet have believed."

In His search for men of faith, God has put it out there to believe or not believe for now. Once He reveals Himself, faith ends.


Now take the first commandment: "Do not have any gods before God"

Add in the fact that humanity has followed thousands of gods throughout history and you have a whole clusterfudge of implications. Many of these competing gods have said largely the same thing. In fact, worshipping the wrong god, in many religions past and present, is the worst crime someone could commit.

This all seems very bizarre to me. So I'm supposed to go ahead and pick the right God from a pool of religions that I've had little reason to believe are accurate (due to the requirement of faith and the lack of direct evidence), from gods who will not reveal themselves, it almost seems like an impossible task to do. It's like playing Russian Roulette with a twist-- there's only one empty cylinder.

I wrote in this thread about my lack of experience in communicating with God and the relative lack of miracles that I've seen in my life, keeping in mind that more than 10,000 days have passed since I was born-- I have seen some crazy stuff of course but I do not see any particular reason to attribute this to God instead of mere chance, and that deep down, I believe the large majority of humans are good people.

It almost seems like I'm better off sitting on the sidelines. I try to live life in a good way, and if one of these gods happens to be very real (Judgement day, if you will), perhaps I can show that god that I almost always held myself to a high ethical standard and that he put me into an essentially impossible task to figure out which of the very similar and non-apparent gods was the right one. If this actually happens, I hope much pity will be given to me.


As for the latter six:
- Honor your mother and father.
- Do not murder
- Do not commit adultery
- Do not steal
- Do not lie about your neighbor
- Do not covet your neighbor's belongings

All good stuff. I wish more people lived in such a way as to follow that list. It seems our source of disagreement stems from you seeing religion/God as the best and perhaps only way for people to follow this and I see much less correlation there. Many atheist/agnostic types I know are very good/moral people, as are many of the Christians.

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With all due respect to 40, God and Jesus showed Himself to the people of Israel and beyond, and yet they still rejected and defied Him. Even seeing God and His power just isn't enough for some people.

I think that we all know, for certain, that God could reveal Himself to the entire planet all at once, in some undeniable, awe inspiring, and yet absolutely unbelievable way, and a certain percentage of people would say that it was all a publicity stunt. Others would say it was a mass hallucination. There would be a large part of the scientific community who would have hundreds of explanations for what happened, They would come up with explanations that have no chance of truly explaining what really happened, yet they would coalesce around a certain theory or 2 anyway.

There are people who believe in God, other people who are not certain, and yet others who do not want God to exist because of what His existence means for them, and who will deny God's existence even when they stand before Him at Judgement.

This last group will deny God no matter what, because it is part of who they are, and their entire persona is built on there being no God.

I often enjoy the show Doctor Who. (even though they sometimes espouse some ideas I cannot agree with) One of the pseudo joking type aspects of the show is how ordinary people forget all about many of the unbelievable things that happen to them, and just assume that it was anything except what actually happened. People accept what is "believable" within their world view, and deny what is not. As I think about this, I can actually see a guy sitting at his desk at home, inside his locked house, with the alarm on, and all of a sudden Jesus appears. The guy freaks out, and Jesus asks them to be calm, and that He means no harm. The guy reaches for his phone, and it turns into a dove. The guy grabs his gun, and fires dead center, emptying the entire clip into Jesus. The bullets don't pass through Him, nothing in the house is broken, and yet Jesus is unharmed. The man cannot believe that it really is Jesus, so Jesus brings the man's late grandfather and grandmother physically back to life for a moment to try and reach the man, and then also miraculously transports the man's mother and father to his side, with them appearing out of thin air. Jesus asks the man to believe in Him, and accept Him as Lord and Savior. Then, as the man watches, the heavens open up, and Jesus walks off, into eternity, along with the man's late grandparents. Jesus leaves the man's parents with him, as continuing evidence of what happened.

The man then turns to his father and mother and says, "That was weird. I just had the weirdest hallucination."

I absolutely do not think that it would matter to many who deny God, even if He appeared before them right this second, because they simply do not want to believe, and would be actively and desperately looking for reasons to not believe.

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I wrote in this thread about my lack of experience in communicating with God and the relative lack of miracles that I've seen in my life, keeping in mind that more than 10,000 days have passed since I was born-- I have seen some crazy stuff of course but I do not see any particular reason to attribute this to God instead of mere chance, and that deep down, I believe the large majority of humans are good people.


I feel compelled to ask you ...... what would be enough for you to believe? What would be enough proof for you? What would make you say "I have zero doubt that God exists, and He is the God of the Bible"?

What would it take for you to believe? Would anything be enough, or would you then just say that it was a crazy coincidence, or just mere chance? I don't ask this to be smart, but I am just curious as to whether God could ever "do enough", or would anything and everything He does simply be written off as mere chance, or crazt coincidence?

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It almost seems like I'm better off sitting on the sidelines. I try to live life in a good way, and if one of these gods happens to be very real (Judgement day, if you will), perhaps I can show that god that I almost always held myself to a high ethical standard and that he put me into an essentially impossible task to figure out which of the very similar and non-apparent gods was the right one. If this actually happens, I hope much pity will be given to me.


"If" God is real, then He will have tried to reach you time after time after time, and you still will have refused to believe Him. "If" God is real, then He is a perfectly just God, who expects us to obey Him, and who punishes those who do not. "If" God is real, then He sent His Son, to be born into mortal life, and to suffer and die, in order to pay the penalty for our sins. "If" God is real, why would He just shrug His shoulders and pardon those who have heard, have felt His presence, and yet have refused to believe? The Bible tells us that we cannot be "good" enough to earn salvation. We have all broken God's Law, and we continue to do so each and every day. We are habitual lawbreakers.

Imagine if the authorities wanted to give everyone a fresh start, and so they said "just come in and confess what you did, and we will immediately pardon you. However, if you do not come in, them you will be prosecuted to the furthest extent of the law, and we will impose the maximum possible penalties, with no plea bargains."

The guy who is caught, 5 years later, is not going to be pardoned. He is going to be prosecuted for every single thing he did, and the maximum penalties will be imposed.

Why is it that we can clearly see this when it relates to man handling crimes, yet we refuse to see when it relates to God? Either we ask God for His pardon before we stand before Him for judgement, or we face the maximum. We don't convict criminals of capital crimes,and then let them go free. We don't convict criminals of capital crimes, where the evidence is absolute, and then work out a plea bargain as they go for sentencing.

Why do we expect God, who knows all, to somehow decide to work out a last second plea, when we have our entire lives to decide to throw ourselves on His mercy?

It wouldn't work in human courts, why would it work when standing before God's justice and judgement?

Please think about this. Please ask God for His mercy, and help. If we truly and earnestly seek Him, He will show Himself to us, and if we ask for His forgiveness, and accept Christ as Lord and Savior, He will always forgive us. Always.


Micah 6:8; He has shown you, O mortal, what is good. And what does the Lord require of you? To act justly and to love mercy, and to walk humbly with your God.

John 14:19 Jesus said: Because I live, you also will live.
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