j/c:
I read the NY Daily news thing before it was posted here. I think she did a poor job of expressing herself and her true intentions were different than what it looks like.
I get tired of how desperate much of social media is in their pursuit of trying to shame others.
Unfortunately I think this is the norm Vers. This reminds me of when Bob Knight (at least I think it was him) telling Connie Chung that if a woman is being raped, just lay back and accept (paraphrasing but that was close). I am in no way a BK fan but I think I knew at the time what he meant and he said it very poorly.