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Y'all need to cut it out now and just do the good Christian thing and send em all to homo-deprogramming-camp...
You can't fix what ain't broke, this is just who they are. LGBT are who they are, who are we to even have an opinion or put our 2 cents in on who they are? They are who they are, we don't get to decide and they damn sure don't need our approval. Our acceptance and and tolerance is appreciated, but not needed.
I can't believe in 2016 we are even having discussions like this... Feel like I just twilight zoned back to the 70s.
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. I don't doubt that some of them are real, but we shouldn't then treat them all as real.
Are you referring solely to the bathroom situation?
Just curious Erik what this statement means? I believe all people should be treated with dignity and respect. I also wonder what your timeline would be for an individual to decide if their "transgenderism" is "real" or imagined.
And, please see Swish's definition of real in this thread. I am just wondering how we can determine if another's mannerisms are real or imagined, occurring in fact or supposed. I did post this earlier, but I will repeat it. I am talking about children only. From reading I have done, when it comes to childhood transgenderism, or adolescent gender dysphoria, most of them out grow it. These kids grow up believing they are the opposite sex in the wrong body. I have read stats saying that almost 75% grow up to be happily gay, about 25% grow up to be happily straight. The small percentage that is left grow up to still want to change genders. Those are what I am calling 'real' transgenders. Therefore, I think that allowing parents to start their kids on hormones before those children hit adulthood is wrong, because most of them outgrown adolescent gender dysphoria.
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So interestingly, although the American Psychiatric Association lists Gender Dysphoria in it's Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, it appears that it does so simply as a way to ensure that insurance will pay for the medical procedures those individuals undergo. So if they weren't trying to convince insurance companies to pay for things like sex change operations it wouldn't be listed. At least that's how I read this: http://www.dsm5.org/documents/gender%20dysphoria%20fact%20sheet.pdfI will admit to being perplexed by that as I would certainly consider gender dysphoria a mental disorder that deserves treatment. I mean, as a human being, you are genetically either a man or a woman. There's no middle ground outside of folks with mutations to their chromosomes. No matter what surgery you have, or what hormones you take, you will always be the gender you were at birth. Having said that, I do think it's a mental disorder that's not harmful to others so if someone is happy with themselves after transitioning then more power to them. But come on, it's not a subjective thing, it's 100% objective, male or female... I personally don't care how any adult live's their life. I do think that there's a problem when kids are allowed to begin things like hormone treatments. Puberty is too important to the overall long term health of an individual to monkey around with it like that. Most people are uncomfortable with themselves groing up, that's part of life.
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I know for a fact that the general public believes that millions of people are "hermaphrodites" I mean they must as I always hear them telling folks to go screw themselves.
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http://cnsnews.com/news/article/michael-...rder-sex-changeAs expected I found just one psychiatrist named as a source for all the "current science" you claimed. The exact same percentages and wording as you posted is right here.
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So once again, your vaunted medical knowledge has led you to attempt to discredit what I have said, and you found an entire single article. Did you yell out 'viola`' or 'eureka' when you found it, or are you actually going to do more research on this subject? I can tell you right now, that wasn't an article I read. To put this quite simply, I have a step son that is one of these 'transgendered' kids. He was just under 4 years old when I married his mother, and I've been his dad longer than his actual father. That kid wanted to be a girl from the first time I met him. He outgrew it around age 20, and now he's happily gay. I have read these articles over a period of years, as I needed help in trying to raise this kid. Mostly, my role was being supportive of him while letting him know he was different. We never tried to force him to be something he wasn't, which is some of the recommendations in the articles I read. We bought him boy and girl toys, and he never gravitated to the boy toys. I even put this kid through some martial arts training. When he admitted to being gay to us, we told him that we knew, that we still loved him, and we would help him as we could. I let him know that his education was very important, and I'd never be able to afford the surgery for him, and if he was able to be in business for himself, it would probably work best for his purposes. I have read hundreds of these articles, and as far as I know, you found the one that you are using to prove your point. I raised a good kid that could have had lots of problems, and he seems to be getting on with his life and making something of himself. I've done my research. How much have you actually done?
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Is he like, man bun gay? Or swole, just got out of prison type gay?
Or, polo shirts and shirt gay? I got a cousin who's man bun gay, dude is hilarious.
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So once again, your vaunted medical knowledge has led you to attempt to discredit what I have said, and you found an entire single article. Did you yell out 'viola`' or 'eureka' when you found it, or are you actually going to do more research on this subject? I can tell you right now, that wasn't an article I read. To put this quite simply, I have a step son that is one of these 'transgendered' kids. He was just under 4 years old when I married his mother, and I've been his dad longer than his actual father. That kid wanted to be a girl from the first time I met him. He outgrew it around age 20, and now he's happily gay. I have read these articles over a period of years, as I needed help in trying to raise this kid. Mostly, my role was being supportive of him while letting him know he was different. We never tried to force him to be something he wasn't, which is some of the recommendations in the articles I read. We bought him boy and girl toys, and he never gravitated to the boy toys. I even put this kid through some martial arts training. When he admitted to being gay to us, we told him that we knew, that we still loved him, and we would help him as we could. I let him know that his education was very important, and I'd never be able to afford the surgery for him, and if he was able to be in business for himself, it would probably work best for his purposes. I have read hundreds of these articles, and as far as I know, you found the one that you are using to prove your point. I raised a good kid that could have had lots of problems, and he seems to be getting on with his life and making something of himself. I've done my research. How much have you actually done? I wanted to see the current science that you could have easily provided but refused to offer it up to educate us. I found the one article that matches your numbers exactly. You are one to jump and discredit others here all the time. Many times without providing any data to back anything up. Comments like "the current science" is vague and can easily be discredited. Voila! So what? I never claimed vaunted medical knowledge like you did then couldn't or wouldn't back it up. I have a cousin that has transitioned years ago when he was in his early twenties. She says this isn't science it's an opinion. Good luck to your son
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Is he like, man bun gay? Or swole, just got out of prison type gay?
Or, polo shirts and shirt gay? I got a cousin who's man bun gay, dude is hilarious. I'm not sure if you're trying to be snide or not, so I will let my personal feeling pass and consider your question legitimate. He's very effeminate. I hope that answers your question.
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it did. i wasn't trying to take a shot bro. legit question.
the gay community definitely have different persona's, its why i asked.
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I wanted to see the current science that you could have easily provided but refused to offer it up to educate us. I found the one article that matches your numbers exactly. You are one to jump and discredit others here all the time. Many times without providing any data to back anything up. Comments like "the current science" is vague and can easily be discredited. Voila! So what?
I never claimed vaunted medical knowledge like you did then couldn't or wouldn't back it up.
I have a cousin that has transitioned years ago when he was in his early twenties. She says this isn't science it's an opinion. Good luck to your son Actually, the information is based on trends that actually happen, so it's not opinion. I didn't keep a list or catalogue of articles I read, and I was not in the mood to look them all up and find the specifics on where I found my points, just to have my work discredited again. I have read those same stats or stats that were close to what I wrote in many articles. Those articles were not from the same authors. What I wrote was done from memory. Once again, this was from many studies I read. Your cousin might have had a different experience and bases what she said on that. I've seen a kid grow out of it, and we damn sure didn't force him grow out of it.
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I don't doubt that some of them are real, but we shouldn't then treat them all as real. I can't believe that more people aren't challenging that statement. Just how should we treat them?
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Fair enough. And yes many young gay children want to be the other sex until they grow up and come to the realization they were born gay. He didn't grow out of anything. He grew up. This is not science, it's humanity. BTW, His vote should cancel out your vote this November.
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Fair enough. And yes many young gay children want to be the other sex until they grow up and come to the realization they were born gay. He didn't grow out of anything. He grew up. This is not science, it's humanity. BTW, His vote should cancel out your vote this November. So, a study of humanity is not science? Interesting. Seeing as he's changed his mind on voting for liberals after Orlando, I doubt his vote will cancel mine.
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On those occasions where we deal with transgendered folk we straight up ask them how as to what they want us to refer to them as... Mr or Ms... if it's a situation where they end up getting arrested, we still converse with them according to how they identify, but they get processed at the jail based upon the gender associated with their driver's license/I.D. card.. i.e. searched by corrections officer of the same gender.
Don't know if this ads anything of substance to the topic but...
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It shows that your department is willing to respect how people identify with. I'm sure that matters a lot to them, and probably eases the tension, however slightly that might be.
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I do have to say that we do get a ton of quality training, both tactical and in communicating. I look at this way, so long as you provide me with your legally recognized information, I really don't care if Bob prefers I call him Susan. It costs me nothing and doesn't change what I have to do.
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You need to send your training up this way then.
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