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Something to ponder for those looking for conversation or just to learn more about troubled youths in our country, rather than trying to demean another's opinion on these issues.


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Why Do Teens Commit Suicide?

An in-depth look at what factors may cause a teen to commit suicide.

After Bobby died by suicide at age sixteen, his parents and friends could not stop wondering why he had done it. They agonized over what had caused him to feel so hopeless. Questions raced through their minds at all hours of the day and night. What had triggered such a strong reaction? Why did he no longer want to live? What could we have done differently? What was going through Bobby’s mind? Why do teens commit suicide at all? And what teen suicide prevention measures could they have used?

There is no clear-cut or simple answer as to why teens commit suicide. There is rarely a simple cause to a teen making this choice. However, there are things that can begin to add up over time that can make a teenager susceptible to suicide. Let’s take a look at some of the things that may lead up to a teen committing suicide, and steps toward teen suicide prevention you can take if you believe your child may be considering suicide.

The Powder Keg
Imagine a mighty wooden ship sailing across the Atlantic Ocean in the 1750s. A cool sea breeze blows over the sailors as they work to keep the ship on course toward its destination and the sun shines warmly on their backs. On the surface, everything appears to be smooth sailing. However, no one realizes that down in the cargo hold, a candle has tipped over during the last storm. While no other damage was done, the sparks ignited the tail end of a fuse that is attached to a barrel of gunpowder. When the fuse burns down, the barrel and the ship carrying it will violently explode.

Suicide is very similar to that powder keg. Many people say after a suicide has happened that they never saw it coming. However, just because you can’t hear the fuse doesn’t mean it isn’t there and burning down. There is usually a powder keg of some sort involved in a teen’s decision to commit suicide.

In our lives, we have matches that light up all the time in the form of challenges and difficulties. However, most people are adept at handling them in healthy and safe ways. What makes teens more susceptible to the sparks that fall out from those daily matches that are lit around them?

What Makes a Teen More Susceptible to Suicide?
There is no list that outlines how prone a teenager may be to suicide. However, there are a few common risk factors that tend to increase their tendency toward suicide:

Attachment issues in early childhood
Childhood trauma
Learning disabilities
Developmental delays
Mental health issues.
While these risk factors don’t mean that a teen will commit suicide, our children may have learned unhealthy coping mechanisms as they faced those challenges. Our teens can become even more vulnerable as they are exposed to:

Peer pressure
Cultural messages
Technology
Social Media and Cell Phone Use
Addictions.


Insight Into a Teen’s Brain
With teens, more than any other age group, suicide is usually an impulsive act. Teenagers tend to be more impulsive because the prefrontal cortex in their brain is not fully developed and does not become fully developed until around the age of twenty-five. The brain’s prefrontal cortex is responsible for higher processing skills such as logic and reasoning. Since that region of the brain is not yet fully developed at this age, it doesn’t consistently process information properly and therefore teenagers jump to more impulsive acts. When this happens, teens move from their “upstairs brain” to their “downstairs” brain.

The Upstairs and Downstairs Brain
In their book The Whole-Brain Child, Dr. Dan Siegel and Dr. Tina Payne Bryson describe a person’s brain in terms of a two-story house. Like the house, the brain has an upstairs and a downstairs area. The upstairs brain is the location where a person’s thinking, processing, logic, and analysis take place. The downstairs brain is where a person’s fight or flight response resides. Reasoning doesn’t happen in the downstairs brain, only reaction.

The upstairs brain has the ability to override unnecessary fight or flight responses that pop up in our daily circumstances and tempers the downstairs brain’s activity. However, if the upstairs brain isn’t fully developed, there can be figurative holes in the house’s floor. When a teenager is feeling trapped, they can drop right through and into the downstairs brain.

For example, a teenager is rejected by someone on social media. When thinking rationally, we know that rejection shouldn’t be a reason for a person to commit suicide. However, for a teenager, the downstairs brain almost immediately kicks in and provides an irrational response that overrides rational thinking. This could cause a teenager to think, “There’s no way I can continue living because I’ve been snubbed on Instagram.”

The Life and Death of Brain Cells
In his book Saving the Brain, Victor Hoff describes events that destroy brain cells. These things include:

Depression
Anxiety
PTSD
High levels of stress
Physical abuse
Sexual abuse
Neglect.

If these things are present while a person’s brain is developing, they wreak havoc on the person’s upstairs brain. When the upstairs brain has damage or deficits, it increases the opportunities for a person to react with their downstairs brain.

Brain cells can be rebuilt if these issues are dealt with. However, it is far more difficult to rebuild brain cells than it is to destroy them. If your teenager is struggling with any of these issues, acknowledge them and be intentional about getting them help to overcome them. Facing these issues together is key for teen suicide prevention.


A Cultural Impact
Not only are our teens more impulsive since their brains are not fully developed, but our culture has taught our teens to be impulsive. Teens are taught that they need to find the easiest and fastest way to solve a problem and have their needs met. Unfortunately, one reason why teens commit suicide is that it’s a “quick fix.”

Here are some ways that the culture may impact teens, making them more susceptible to suicide.

1. What I Deserve
Today’s culture teaches that we don’t deserve to feel pain or have hurt in our lives; that we deserve an easy life with all its benefits. Teens tend to buy into this mentality and tend to start describing their lives in terms of what they should or shouldn’t have. For example, they may think, “I should get an A on my test” or “I shouldn’t have to work so hard.” These statements often aren’t accurate to how life operates and can lead to sharp disappointment and a tendency to not take responsibility for one’s own actions.

2. A Sense of Anger
When life isn’t going the way a teenager thinks it should, a teen might get angry. Boys tend to experience anger far more often than girls. Sometimes a teen will choose to commit suicide as a way to punish someone or as a way to get back at someone. However, it really takes a lot of anger for a teen to override their survival instincts to commit suicide.

3. Media’s Impact
Teens have constant access to the news. It’s everywhere: on the TV, the Internet, and even the phones they carry in their pockets. Bad news is thrown in their faces constantly. Many years ago, when all we had was the news, newspaper, and phone, the way we processed bad news wasn’t constant or real-time.

After the terror attacks of September 11, media teams discovered that they were traumatizing people who hadn’t even been on the scene by repeatedly showing images of the planes crashing into the World Trade Center. After realizing this, several days later, they stopped showing the images. However, this same phenomenon is occurring with our kids today. The constant bombardment of images and videos is impacting our kids.

Unfortunately, the news neglects the good things that happen all the time. Seeing so much negative news and none of the good skews our teens’ views of the world. They begin to think, “If this world is so rotten, why would I want to live in it?”

It is a constant battle for parents to raise kids with a hopeful perspective. The Bible instructs us, “Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is just, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is commendable, if there is any excellence, if there is anything worthy of praise, think about these things” (Philippians 4:8). Doing this will help our teens remain optimistic in their perspectives.

4. Glorifying Violence
Our culture glorifies a sense of violence toward ourselves and others. We so often forget that everything that touches our senses has a permanent impact. Video games, movies, television, and music all can skew our teens’ perspectives on how to handle life’s challenges. When they are repeatedly exposed to violence, it diminishes their reaction to it and they become numb and desensitized. Feeling numb to violence and death makes them more likely to commit suicide.

5. Virtual Environments and Reality
Interactions with others are increasingly virtual and occur online. This has become especially true during the coronavirus pandemic. Increasing use of technology such as photoshop and video editing software allows people to showcase a different version of reality. False news quickly muddies the waters. Teens can easily begin to wonder what is real. They may begin to question if death is real, and that disconnect may make them more prone to suicide.

6. Anxiety
Anxiety can develop in our teens in several ways. During the coronavirus pandemic, reported cases of anxiety and the use of anti-depressants have increased 34% in the United States.

Teens also face a tremendous amount of pressure to make decisions about their future. Anxiety is future-focused and can be sparked by “what-if” questions surrounding that future. Teens are in a position where they have to start thinking about whether want to attend college, what college they’re going to attend, how they’re going to afford it, where they are going to live, and what career they want to have. There is a lot of pressure on teens to make a perfect choice, the first time. There is often no room for trial and error, exploration, or mistakes. This pressure to be perfect and make the right choices can send anxiety spiraling out of control for our teens. That anxiety starts to destroy their brain cells and makes them more reactive than rational in their choices.

While this is not a conclusive list of things that may make a teen susceptible to suicide, these may be matches that light the powder keg’s fuse. Be aware of these risk factors in your teen’s life and be proactive if you see any of them getting out of control. Being aware and responding appropriately is key to teen suicide prevention. But how do you know when a teenager is serious about committing suicide?

S.L.A.P.
Suicidal thoughts are normal and are common for teenagers, so don’t panic if you discover your teen is having these thoughts. You may hear them say, “I don’t want to live.” However, it’s far less common to hear, “I want to kill myself.” If you hear them using those words, and see any of the following signs, get help right away.

S – Specific Plan (Does my teenager have a specific plan to kill themselves?)

L – Lethality (Is that plan lethal?)

A – Availability (Is that method available and accessible to my teenager?)

P – Proximity to People (Is my teen alone a lot? (Teens will rarely commit suicide around other people.))

Parents, deal with your teen’s past trauma. Deal with their depression and anxiety. Don’t sweep these things under the rug. Moderate how much time your kids are spending with media, and what they’re watching and interacting with. All these things are pieces to the puzzle of teen suicide prevention.

Be intentional about taking an honest look at your kids. This requires being really tuned in to each kid individually and discovering their needs, challenges, frustrations, and emotions. It doesn’t matter what you have done as a parent in the past, but it does matter what you do going forward. Make amends now and take steps to get your teen help now. Have the courage to face the truth of what your teen may be dealing with and face it together. It takes intentionality as a parent and investment in your teen to do this, but it may save their life.

Final Thoughts on Why Teens Commit Suicide

Parents usually want to find and blame the one thing that caused their son or daughter to commit suicide. However, it’s rarely ever one thing that causes them to make that choice. It is a very complex, complicated, and multilayered thing that causes a person to push past their normal survival instincts and commit suicide.

Parents who survive a child’s suicide also tend to blame themselves. It’s important to recognize that sometimes parents do everything right, and still lose a child to suicide. Sometimes parents really do have an impact on their child’s progression toward that choice. If you are in this boat, no matter which boat you are in, remember that it doesn’t help to blame yourself as a parent.

Whether you are a parent helping your teenager to prevent suicide, or you’ve lost your teenager to suicide, find a community, and gather them close around you. You may find that this community is people in the church, friends, or other parents who have faced the same challenges. Keep a close connection with safe people and walk on this journey with others. Remember that you are not alone.


https://www.focusonthefamily.com/parenting/why-do-teens-commit-suicide/

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I tried to have a discussion but you seemingly don't wish to.


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I wasn't talking about you. I thought your post was fair. I disagreed w/parts, but that's fine. I don't think my opinions are gospel. I just like to introduce thought into a subject. I'm not interested in debating it. If some don't agree that the issues I am currently addressing one or two at a time are contributing factors in our mass murders and suicides, than so be it. Everyone has their opinion. Fine w/me.

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I do think you made points that add to the problem. To what extent is debatable but that doesn't mean they aren't a part of the contributing factors.


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Another mass shooting.

https://www.fox13memphis.com/watch-...ebaa552-20ff-5c23-8b60-e943de427e5b.html

It seems one person had a Glock with the switch.

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Thanks for the article. It reveals a lot.

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We’re never going to convince anyone raised in the NRA cult to believe they are part of the problem. No way.


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I have been thinking about how the FBI profiles serial killers and how we should be doing the same for mass murderers. The mass murderer definitions are vague and inconsistent, so I'm just talking about shooters who walk into schools, movie theaters, malls, etc.

A couple of minutes ago, I typed in something like is the government trying to profile mass murderers. A lot of the results were about trying to define "mass murderers." I checked out one link that mentioned two professors. I think it's fairly interesting read for the most part. I think some of it is bogus and perhaps politically motivated, but there are parts that are important and meaningful. Such as, the causes of ....and what the government can do to identify these people early and get them the necessary treatment. I also think it's noteworthy that the shooters are also committing suicide.

I don't want to debate the political parties, but I've long thought we need to invest the resources to first profile these shooters, create ways to identify them early, and then get them the necessary treatment to help prevent future mass murders. Doing so will be outrageously expensive. Is the safety of our school children and other innocent citizens worth the cost?

Here is the article:

Two Professors Found What Creates a Mass Shooter. Will Politicians Pay Attention?
Mass shooters overwhelmingly fit a certain profile, say Jillian Peterson and James Densley, which means it’s possible to ID and treat them before they commit violence.


By MELANIE WARNER

05/27/2022 02:54 PM EDT

Melanie Warner is a writer in Honolulu and author, most recently, of The Magic Feather Effect: The Science of Alternative Medicine and the Surprising Power of Belief.

Each time a high-profile mass shooting happens in America, a grieving and incredulous nation scrambles for answers. Who was this criminal and how could he (usually) have committed such a horrendous and inhumane act? A few details emerge about the individual’s troubled life and then everyone moves on.

Three years ago, Jillian Peterson, an associate professor of criminology at Hamline University, and James Densley, a professor of criminal justice at Metro State University, decided to take a different approach. In their view, the failure to gain a more meaningful and evidence-based understanding of why mass shooters do what they do seemed a lost opportunity to stop the next one from happening. Funded by the National Institute of Justice, the research arm of the Department of Justice, their research constructed a database of every mass shooter since 1966 who shot and killed four or more people in a public place, and every shooting incident at schools, workplaces and places of worship since 1999.


Peterson and Densley also compiled detailed life histories on 180 shooters, speaking to their spouses, parents, siblings, childhood friends, work colleagues and teachers. As for the gunmen themselves, most don’t survive their carnage, but five who did talked to Peterson and Densely from prison, where they were serving life sentences. The researchers also found several people who planned a mass shooting but changed their mind.

Their findings, also published in the 2021 book, The Violence Project: How to Stop a Mass Shooting Epidemic, reveal striking commonalities among the perpetrators of mass shootings and suggest a data-backed, mental health-based approach could identify and address the next mass shooter before he pulls the trigger — if only politicians are willing to actually engage in finding and funding targeted solutions. POLITICO talked to Peterson and Densely from their offices in St. Paul, Minn., about how our national understanding about mass shooters has to evolve, why using terms like “monster” is counterproductive, and why political talking points about mental health need to be followed up with concrete action.

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POLITICO: Since you both spend much of your time studying mass shootings, I wonder if you had the same stunned and horrified reaction as the rest of us to the Uvalde elementary school shooting. Or were you somehow expecting this?

Jillian Peterson: On some level, we were waiting because mass shootings are socially contagious and when one really big one happens and gets a lot of media attention, we tend to see others follow. But this one was particularly gutting. I have three elementary school kids, one of which is in 4th grade.


James Densley: I’m also a parent of two boys, a 5-year-old and a 12-year-old. My 12-year-old knows what I do for a living and he’s looking to me for reassurance and I didn’t have the words for him. How do I say, “This happened at a school, but now it’s OK for you to go to your school and live your life.” It’s heartbreaking.

POLITICO: Are you saying there’s a link between the Buffalo and Uvalde shootings?

Peterson: We don’t know for sure at this point, but our research would say that it’s likely. You had an 18-year-old commit a horrific mass shooting. His name is everywhere and we all spend days talking about “replacement theory.” That shooter was able to get our attention. So, if you have another 18-year-old who is on the edge and watching everything, that could be enough to embolden him to follow. We have seen this happen before.

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Densley: Mass shooters study other mass shooters. They often find a way of relating to them, like, “There are other people out there who feel like me.”

POLITICO: Can you take us through the profile of mass shooters that emerged from your research?

Peterson: There’s this really consistent pathway. Early childhood trauma seems to be the foundation, whether violence in the home, sexual assault, parental suicides, extreme bullying. Then you see the build toward hopelessness, despair, isolation, self-loathing, oftentimes rejection from peers. That turns into a really identifiable crisis point where they’re acting differently. Sometimes they have previous suicide attempts.


What’s different from traditional suicide is that the self-hate turns against a group. They start asking themselves, “Whose fault is this?” Is it a racial group or women or a religious group, or is it my classmates? The hate turns outward. There’s also this quest for fame and notoriety.

POLITICO: You’ve written about how mass shootings are always acts of violent suicide. Do people realize this is what’s happening in mass shootings?

Peterson: I don’t think most people realize that these are suicides, in addition to homicides. Mass shooters design these to be their final acts. When you realize this, it completely flips the idea that someone with a gun on the scene is going to deter this. If anything, that’s an incentive for these individuals. They are going in to be killed.

It’s hard to focus on the suicide because these are horrific homicides. But it’s a critical piece because we know so much from the suicide prevention world that can translate here.

POLITICO: I’ve heard many references over the last few weeks to “monsters” and “pure evil.” You’ve said this kind of language actually makes things worse. Why?

Densley: If we explain this problem as pure evil or other labels like terrorist attack or hate crime, we feel better because it makes it seem like we’ve found the motive and solved the puzzle. But we haven’t solved anything. We’ve just explained the problem away. What this really problematic terminology does is prevent us from recognizing that mass shooters are us. This is hard for people to relate to because these individuals have done horrific, monstrous things. But three days earlier, that school shooter was somebody’s son, grandson, neighbor, colleague or classmate. We have to recognize them as the troubled human being earlier if we want to intervene before they become the monster.

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Peterson: The Buffalo shooter told his teacher that he was going to commit a murder-suicide after he graduated. People aren’t used to thinking that this kind of thing could be real because the people who do mass shootings are evil, psychopathic monsters and this is a kid in my class. There’s a disconnect.


POLITICO: Do you get criticism about being too sympathetic toward mass shooters?

Peterson: We’re not trying to create excuses or say they shouldn’t be held responsible. This is really about, what is the pathway to violence for these people, where does this come from? Only then can we start building data-driven solutions that work. If we’re unwilling to understand the pathway, we’re never going to solve this.

POLITICO: So, what are the solutions?

Densley: There are things we can do right now as individuals, like safe storage of firearms or something as simple as checking in with your kid.

Peterson: Then we really need resources at institutions like schools. We need to build teams to investigate when kids are in crisis and then link those kids to mental health services. The problem is that in a lot of places, those services are not there. There’s no community mental health and no school-based mental health. Schools are the ideal setting because it doesn’t require a parent to take you there. A lot of perpetrators are from families where the parents are not particularly proactive about mental health appointments.

POLITICO: In your book, you say that in an ideal world, 500,000 psychologists would be employed in schools around the country. If you assume a modest salary of $70,000 a year, that amounts to over $35 billion in funding. Are you seeing any national or state-level political momentum for even a sliver of these kind of mental health resources?


Densley: Every time these tragedies happen, you always ask yourself, “Is this the one that’s going to finally move the needle?” The Republican narrative is that we’re not going to touch guns because this is all about mental health. Well then, we need to ask the follow-up question of what’s the plan to fix that mental health problem. Nobody’s saying, “Let’s fund this, let’s do it, we’ll get the votes.” That’s the political piece that’s missing here.

POLITICO: Are Democrats talking about mental health?

Densley: Too often in politics it becomes an either-or proposition. Gun control or mental health. Our research says that none of these solutions is perfect on its own. We have to do multiple things at one time and put them together as a comprehensive package. People have to be comfortable with complexity and that’s not always easy.

Peterson: Post-Columbine there’s been this real focus on hardening schools — metal detectors, armed officers, teaching our kids to run and hide. The shift I’m starting to see, at least here in Minnesota, is that people are realizing hardening doesn’t work. Over 90 percent of the time, school shooters target their own school. These are insiders, not outsiders. We just had a bill in Minnesota that recognized public safety as training people in suicide prevention and funding counselors. I hope we keep moving in that direction.

Densley: In Uvalde, there was an army of good guys with guns in the parking lot. The hard approach doesn’t seem to be getting the job done.

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POLITICO: Do you support red flag laws?

Peterson: Our research certainly supports them, because so many perpetrators are actively showing warning signs. They are talking about doing this and telling people they’re suicidal. But what Buffalo showed us is that just because you have a red flag law on the books doesn’t mean people are trained in how it works and how they should be implementing it.


POLITICO: What has to change to make the laws more effective?

Densley: There are two pieces. One is training and awareness. People need to know that the law exists, how it works and who has a duty to report an individual. The second piece is the practical component of law enforcement. What is the mechanism to safely remove those firearms? Especially if you have a small law enforcement presence, maybe one or two officers, and you’re asking them to go into somebody’s rural home and take care of their entire arsenal of weapons.

POLITICO: What should have happened in Buffalo, given that the state of New York has a red flag law?

Peterson: From what we know, it sounds like there should have been more education with the police, the mental health facility and the school. If any one of those three had initiated the red flag process, it should have prevented the shooter from making the purchase.

It really shows the limitations of our current systems. Law enforcement investigated, but the shooter had no guns at that moment, so it was not an immediate threat. The mental health facility concluded it was not an immediate crisis, so he goes back to school. If it’s not a red-hot situation in that moment, nobody can do anything. It was none of these people’s jobs to make sure that he got connected with somebody in the community who could help him long term.


Densley: Also, something happens to put people on the radar. Even if they’re not the next shooter, something’s not right. How can we help these individuals reintegrate in a way that’s going to try and turn their lives around? That gets lost if we fixate just on the word “threat.”

POLITICO: I was struck by a detail in your book about one of the perpetrators you investigated. Minutes before he opened fire, you report that he called a behavior health facility. Is there always some form of reaching out or communication of intent before it happens?

Peterson: You don’t see it as often with older shooters who often go into their workplaces. But for young shooters, it’s almost every case. We have to view this “leakage” as a cry for help. If you’re saying, “I want to shoot the school tomorrow,” you are also saying, “I don’t care if I live or die.” You’re also saying, “I’m completely hopeless,” and you’re putting it out there for people to see because part of you wants to be stopped.

We have to listen because pushing people out intensifies their grievance and makes them angrier. The Parkland shooter had just been expelled from school and then came back. This is not a problem we can punish our way out of.


https://www.politico.com/news/magazine/2022/05/27/stopping-mass-shooters-q-a-00035762

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Emergency visits up in hospitals for gun shot wounds. Higher than pre-pandemic levels.

I’m betting it’s because they’re too many guns on the streets and they’re too easy to acquire. But what do I know. rolleyes


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What people seem to try and dismiss is the very same conditions exist in other nations who do not have this mass shooting issue. They just need look on the streets of Paris and Israel. The political divide is just as bad as it is here. That isolation among teens happens everywhere. The same technology exists in every advanced country. We aren't special in those regards. But I guess overlooking the obvious difference is a helpful distraction for some.


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Before I begin.......I have already said that easy access to guns is a problem and a contributing factor. Stop pretending otherwise. I have also said I don't think anyone w/mental illness should be able to purchase guns. I would not allow anyone convicted of violent crimes of any sort to purchase guns. I have no problem w/making gun laws tougher. I just feel that this problem goes far, far deeper than just guns and that people parrot what they are told due to political sides.

Anyway.......here is an article about school shooting and what can we do to prevent them. I will also provide the link to National Association of School Psychologists. I should have known that there isn't any profiling being done on our schools. It's about the rights of the individual. That is a huge problem in and of itself. Keep your heads in the sand.


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School shootings: What we know about them, and what we can do to prevent them

Robin M. Kowalski, Ph.D. Wednesday, January 26, 2022

On the morning of Nov. 30, 2021, a 15-year-old fatally shot four students and injured seven others at his high school in Oakland County, Michigan. It’s just one of the latest tragedies in a long line of the horrific K-12 school shootings now seared into our memories as Americans.


And we have seen that the threat of school shootings, in itself, is enough to severely disrupt schools. In December, a TikTok challenge known as “National Shoot Up Your School Day” gained prominence. Although vague and with no clear origin, the challenge warned of possible acts of violence at K-12 schools. In response, some schools nationwide cancelled classes, others stepped up security. Many students stayed home from school that day. (It’s worth noting that no incidents of mass violence ended up occurring.)

What are the problems that appear to underlie school shootings? How can we better respond to students that are in need? If a student does pose a threat and has the means to carry it out, how can members of the school community act to stop it? Getting a better grasp of school shootings, as challenging as it might be, is a clear priority for preventing harm and disruption for kids, staff, and families. This post considers what we know about K-12 school shootings and what we might do going forward to alleviate their harms.

WHO IS PERPETRATING SCHOOL SHOOTINGS?
As the National Association of School Psychologists says, “There is NO profile of a student who will cause harm.” Indeed, any attempt to develop profiles of school shooters is an ill-advised and potentially dangerous strategy. Profiling risks wrongly including many children who would never consider committing a violent act and wrongly excluding some children who might. However, while an overemphasis on personal warning signs is problematic, there can still be value in identifying certain commonalities behind school shootings. These highlight problems that can be addressed to minimize the occurrence of school shootings, and they can play a pivotal role in helping the school community know when to check in—either with an individual directly or with someone close to them (such as a parent or guidance counselor). Carefully integrating this approach into a broader prevention strategy helps school personnel understand the roots of violent school incidents and assess risks in a way that avoids the recklessness of profiling.

Within this framework of threat assessment, exploring similarities and differences of school shootings—if done responsibly—can be useful to prevention efforts. To that end, I recently published a study with colleagues that examined the extent to which features common to school shootings prior to 2003 were still relevant today. We compared the antecedents of K-12 shootings, college/university shootings, and other mass shootings.

We found that the majority of school shooters are male (95%) and white (61%)–yet many of these individuals feel marginalized. Indeed, almost half of those who perpetrate K-12 shootings report a history of rejection, with many experiencing bullying. One 16-year-old shooter wrote, “I feel rejected, rejected, not so much alone, but rejected. I feel this way because the day-to-day treatment I get usually it’s positive but the negative is like a cut, it doesn’t go away really fast.” Prior to the Parkland shooting, the perpetrator said, “I had enough of being—telling me that I’m an idiot and a dumbass.” A 14-year-old shooter stated in court, “I felt like I wasn’t wanted by anyone, especially my mom.” These individuals felt rejected and insignificant.


Our study also found that more than half of K-12 shooters have a history of psychological problems (e.g., depression, suicidal ideation, bipolar disorder, and psychotic episodes). The individuals behind the Sandy Hook and Columbine shootings, among others, had been diagnosed with an assortment of psychological conditions. (Of course, the vast majority of children with diagnosed psychological conditions don’t commit an act of mass violence. Indeed, psychologists and psychiatrists have warned that simply blaming mental illness for mass shootings unfairly stigmatizes those with diagnoses and ignores other, potentially more salient factors behind incidents of mass violence.) For some, the long-term rejection is compounded by a more acute rejection experience that immediately precedes the shooting. While K-12 school shooters were less likely than other mass shooters to experience an acute, traumatic event shortly before the shooting, these events are not uncommon.

Many shooters also display a fascination with guns and/or a preoccupation with violence. They play violent video games, watch violent movies, and read books that glorify violence and killing. Several of the shooters showed a particular fascination with Columbine, Hitler, and/or Satanism. They wrote journals or drew images depicting violence and gore. The continued exposure to violence may desensitize individuals to violence and provide ideas that are then copied in the school shootings.

To reiterate, however, there is no true profile of a school shooter. Plenty of people are bullied in middle and high school without entertaining thoughts of shooting classmates. Similarly, making and breaking relationships goes along with high school culture, yet most people who experience a break-up do not think of harming others. Anxiety and depression are common, especially in adolescence, and countless adolescents play violent video games without committing acts of violence in real life. Even if some commonalities are evident, we must recognize their limits.

WHAT CAN WE DO?
Understanding the experiences of school shooters can reveal important insights for discerning how to prevent school shootings. So, what might we do about it?

First, the problems that appear to underlie some school shootings, such as bullying and mental-health challenges, need attention—and there’s a lot we can do. School administrators and educators need to implement bullying prevention programs, and they need to pay attention to the mental-health needs of their students. One way to do this is to facilitate “psychological mattering” in schools. Students who feel like they matter—that they are important or significant to others—are less likely to feel isolated, ostracized, and alone. They feel confident that there are people to whom they can turn for support. To the extent that mattering is encouraged in schools, bullying should decrease. Typically, we don’t bully people who are important or significant to us.

Second, because most of the perpetrators of K-12 shootings are under the age of 18, they cannot legally acquire guns. In our study, handguns were used in over 91% of the K-12 shootings, and almost half of the shooters stole the gun from a family member. Without guns, there cannot be school shootings. Clearly more needs to be done to keep guns out of the hands of youth in America.

Third, students, staff, and parents must pay attention to explicit signals of an imminent threat. Many shooters leak information about their plans well before the shooting. They may create a video, write in a journal, warn certain classmates not to attend school on a particular day, brag about their plans, or try to enlist others’ help in their plot. Social media has provided a venue for children to disclose their intentions. Yet, students, parents, and educators often ignore or downplay the warning signs of an imminent threat. Students often think their peers are simply expressing threats as a way of garnering attention. Even if the threats are taken seriously, an unwritten code of silence keeps many students from reporting what they see or hear. They don’t want to be a snitch or risk being the target of the would-be shooter’s rage. With this in mind, educators and administrators need to encourage reporting among students—even anonymously—and need to take those reports extremely seriously. Helpful information for teachers, administrators, and parents can be found at SchoolSafety.gov. In addition, Sandy Hook Promise provides information about school violence and useful videos for young people about attending to the warning signs that often accompany school shootings.

Fourth, school leaders should be aware that not every apparent act of prevention is worth the costs. Some people believe that lockdown drills, metal detectors, school resource officers, and the like are useful deterrents to school shootings and school violence more broadly. However, researchers have also demonstrated that they can increase anxiety and fear among students. Students may also become habituated to the drills, failing to recognize the seriousness of an actual threat should it arise. Additionally, most K-12 shooters are students within the school itself. These students are well-versed in the security measures taken by the school to try to deter acts of violence by individuals such as themselves. While few would suggest getting rid of lockdown drills and other security measures, educators and administrators need to be mindful of the rewards versus the costs in their selection of safety measures.

Ultimately, our goal should be creating an environment in which school shootings never occur. This is an ambitious aim, and it will be challenging work. But addressing some key issues, such as mental health, will go a long way toward preventing future tragedies in our schools. As so aptly demonstrated in the Ted Talk, “I was almost a school shooter,” by Aaron Stark, making someone feel that they have value and that they matter can go a long way toward altering that individual’s life and, consequently, the lives of others.

https://www.brookings.edu/blog/brow...them-and-what-we-can-do-to-prevent-them/


Here is the link to NASP. Tons of interesting information on their site and student rights.


https://www.nasponline.org/resource...l-prevention/threat-assessment-at-school

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As I stated, every social ill you have contended exist in America exists in ever modern nation. Yet only we have this problem among modern nations on anything close to this scale. There is only one major difference between them and us. So as to this portion of your post.....

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I have also said I don't think anyone w/mental illness should be able to purchase guns.

What do you consider a mental illness? What if someone has been diagnosed with depression or anxiety? Should they not be able to purchase a firearm?

Because that's a big issue as well. As your source stated, profiling people is dangerous. Overreach is a very real possibility in regards to this. It would be a travesty to see children who are shy, bashful and socially awkward get such a stigma attached to them so early in life. That may actually help create more mass shooters than it prevents.


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I posted factual articles containing the data on political, social, economic, and religious views of all the modern countries. We were at--or right near--the top in all of these issues. And again, please stop making it seem like I am against gun control. I don't know how much more clear I can make it than I just did in my previous post.

I also don't think profiling is a bad idea. It's not like we are removing them from schools and society. We could get a lot of these troubled kids the help they need before their illnesses manifest into something worse. Furthermore, you are wrong if you don't think that these kids don't stand out in schools. You think kids don't notice the kid I mentioned earlier? Do you think it doesn't bother them that that same individual was walking across the basketball court and a kid accidentally ran into him and got punched in the face for doing so? To top it off, the kid did not get suspended because he had so many issues and previous suspensions did not help the problem. Other kids don't notice that? Kids aren't as dumb as adults think they are. Bottom line.......getting these kids into therapy to help them find ways of coping w/their problems would be much more helpful than what we are currently doing, which is basically ignoring and excusing those problems.

By way of parting......I'm not here to argue. I am not taking sides w/the political parties. I don't trust politicians at all. I have zero ties to either political party. I can't stand either one of them. I am here because mental illness has always been something that I was interested in. I started off as a psychology major. I also hate seeing innocents murdered and others resorting to suicides. I don't know the answers, but I do spend a lot of time trying to educate myself on what's going on w/these mass murders and suicides. I am not counting things like drive by shootings of 3-4 individuals and similar shootings as part of the mass murders. I do know that the "thoughts and prayers" thing is not working. Neither is all the grandstanding political debate on guns. This is an issue of our society.

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I have no idea where you got any of that from my post. I actually asked some questions regarding your post. I'll try yet again even though I'm thinking it will be rather futile.

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I have also said I don't think anyone w/mental illness should be able to purchase guns.

What is your definition of a mental illness? Would that include anyone who has been diagnosed with things such as depression and or anxiety? If not what do you consider the threshold of a mental illness should be?

We already have a portion of our society mainly men, who sees getting mental help as a weakness. If their fear becomes them losing their gun rights for receiving such help many of those who need such help the most will even further avoid getting the help they need.

And to address profiling. Profiling has been used to identify serial killers. That's quite true. But that's to solve these crimes after they happen, not before.

So are you suggesting that the school in and of itself have the ability to force these kids into therapy? Or do you think such therapy should be left to the discretion of the parents based on the advice of the school? I know you have used an extreme example of a kid to make your point but where do you propose limits and the lines be drawn on schools either recommending or forcing a child into therapy? As of now we've witnessed school therapists recommend almost any child who acts out at all be medicated.

Overmedication in School-Age Children Research Paper

https://ivypanda.com/essays/overmedication-in-school-age-children/

So should we simply give all school therapists carte blanche in making metal health decisions and diagnosis for all of our children?

What preventative profiling has done in the past has been adopted in stop and frisk laws. So that anyone who looks to fit a certain profile could be pretty much stopped and searched by the cops at any time in NYC. Many having done nothing and were more or less harassed and labeled.

No. I'm not happy with conditions as they are now. And can it help prevent some of these shooting from happening? Maybe. The issue is most of these shooters are former students who are no longer in school. And the devil in what you are proposing is in the details.

But see, I have no idea why you call posts such as mine an argument. This is what a discussion looks like. The idea you are proposing as it stands is an outline of a far bigger proposal. There are many questions about how such a proposal would work. What the limitations would be. What guidelines and limitations you and others would be comfortable with.

I have no idea why you think I indicated you are against gun control. I have no idea why you think any of the questions I've brought up are political. I'm not even saying that I'm against the idea you are proposing. I'm simply saying that it's a very complicated idea and I think most people would have to understand the depth and parameters of such a proposal to fully be able to say they would either promote it or not.

Like I said, this is what an attempt at a discussion looks like. If you somehow have it to be different in your mind, so be it.


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I think we are seeing examples of why our country produces so many individuals who murder others or take their own lives. The divide is real. We are perhaps the least "united" modern nation in the world. The results are far too many people walking around w/hate in their hearts. They label. They bully. They call others' names. The spread their hate on a daily basis. And then they blame guns.

Are you just waking up to this? Where have you been since, like, 2010? Smh. Why do you think I rail so hard against the ex-divider and chief? I hope you aren't just whining because somebody stepped on the edge of your feelings because this is a genuine issue mostly brought about by GOPer ignorance and lies. And I also hope you are open to the truth because you just got it.

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I'm not whining. Are you capable of making a post w/out insulting someone? I actually think that folks like you are a huge part of the problem.

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I'm not whining. Are you capable of making a post w/out insulting someone? I actually think that folks like you are a huge part of the problem.

I know you do. And that statement is also considered insulting when the problem is obvious to thinking people.

You and a few others around here think all I do is hate, and I get that. But hate has nothing to do with wanting to see this crap fixed and for people on that other side to start acting like Americans again instead of social terrorists every time they take a loss. And the idiotic acts of senseless hate they regularly commit are repulsive to the civilized world. Now I know you are probably rolling your eyes about it because you can't see that the side you choose is an anti-American-values train wreck. But hey, Vers, keep supporting the kumbaya come together because we really do need it, especially with Trump about to go through a slew of things—bad things for him.

So yes, Vers, as long as Trump is still viable, or DStains, or others of that ilk; Marge, Gym, and Bobert, to mention a few. You will probably continue to think I'm the problem. It's called standing for your values and not pulling punches when your opponent NEEDS to hit the floor. And I can't think of anything more important than holding Trump and his J6 enablers accountable to the man. I can think of nothing more important than stomping out the fascism, the Putin worship, and the puritanic terrorism plaguing the LGBTQ and female health rights from the MAGA Goobs! And I don't want to hear any baby killer BS after the right does diddly-squat while 9-year-old babies get killed in THEIR CHURCHES! It's absolute madness on full display as I watch the right try to spin all this into something that remotely makes sense. It's like GOPers think they actually have any kind of real plan or that they actually give a damn about people. Anybody with eyes can see that's a damn lie.

However, there is good news for people like you who feel like they are doing everything right while supporting this poisonous cancer as if it's only a slight part of their political views... When your leaders show us all that hate and division are the only tools in their box, you can vote them out and elect better people. You will be shocked at how amiable the left will be when MAGA dies.

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Like I said, this is what an attempt at a discussion looks like.

And that's why someone doesn't want to engage.


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I don't support Trump. I do not support the Republican party. I support folks working together to solve problems instead of spreading hate and divisiveness. As far as this board goes, it's your side that continues to label, insult, and misrepresent what others are saying. That is why I point it out. If it was the right doing the thing that you, 888, Perfect, and Pit do, I would point that out.

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Yet I haven't seen you address any of the very Republicans whose hateful propaganda is dividing this nation. You see they are the ones the nation hears. Nobody on this message board is heard outside of this forum. Those dividing this nation on a daily basis are those in power. The MTG's, Boebert's and Jim Jordon's. And then there's their feckless leader. You'd rather focus on some every day people that have no actual impact on any of that. You never point that out. You point your finger at those who hold no power and thus far have refused to point your finger at those who do.

And no, there was no misunderstanding in my previous post. When you propose therapy and profiling for potential mass shooters, especially as it pertains to school children, there is a lot of details that go with that. Parameters as to who has the power to allow such therapy. My post to you was simply asking how such a thing would be implemented. You stated that mental illness should prevent people from having guns. So I asked you what you feel the parameters were and to what extent do you consider a mental illness.

All a logical progression to the discussion to understand how such a thing would be implemented. If you have decided not to address those things that's fine. But trying to drop it in my lap as if I didn't understand is ridiculous.


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This is why I don't converse w/you. I was talking about members of this board. Not one person on the right called me a libtard or any other name when I said I supported stricter gun laws. It's always you guys who label and hate. You also do not get to control my narrative. I have no problem w/you disagreeing w/my opinions. But, you pick and choose, misrepresent what I'm saying, and then say we are having a discussion. We can't have a discussion because you are too one-sided to discuss things w/out bias. I'll have more about my thoughts on this issue in a bit. Count on it.

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How was any of my questions one sided? They weren't. They were simply asked to try and understand the parameters and guidelines you would propose in implementing such an idea. It was to find out what you defined as a mental illness that would decide who should and who should not have the right to purchase and own firearms. And of course you still have no intention of addressing any of that.

I have no intention of trying to control your narrative. But it's certainly worth pointing out that those who are actually in power and have control over our nations divide get a free pass on here from you while those that hold no power in the grand scheme of things get called out by you as if they make a difference. The only narrative anyone is trying to control here is you. And you lack the power to do so.


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I'm not whining. Are you capable of making a post w/out insulting someone? I actually think that folks like you are a huge part of the problem.

I know you do. And that statement is also considered insulting when the problem is obvious to thinking people.

You and a few others around here think all I do is hate, and I get that. But hate has nothing to do with wanting to see this crap fixed and for people on that other side to start acting like Americans again instead of social terrorists every time they take a loss. And the idiotic acts of senseless hate they regularly commit are repulsive to the civilized world. Now I know you are probably rolling your eyes about it because you can't see that the side you choose is an anti-American-values train wreck. But hey, Vers, keep supporting the kumbaya come together because we really do need it, especially with Trump about to go through a slew of things—bad things for him.

So yes, Vers, as long as Trump is still viable, or DStains, or others of that ilk; Marge, Gym, and Bobert, to mention a few. You will probably continue to think I'm the problem. It's called standing for your values and not pulling punches when your opponent NEEDS to hit the floor. And I can't think of anything more important than holding Trump and his J6 enablers accountable to the man. I can think of nothing more important than stomping out the fascism, the Putin worship, and the puritanic terrorism plaguing the LGBTQ and female health rights from the MAGA Goobs! And I don't want to hear any baby killer BS after the right does diddly-squat while 9-year-old babies get killed in THEIR CHURCHES! It's absolute madness on full display as I watch the right try to spin all this into something that remotely makes sense. It's like GOPers think they actually have any kind of real plan or that they actually give a damn about people. Anybody with eyes can see that's a damn lie.

However, there is good news for people like you who feel like they are doing everything right while supporting this poisonous cancer as if it's only a slight part of their political views... When your leaders show us all that hate and division are the only tools in their box, you can vote them out and elect better people. You will be shocked at how amiable the left will be when MAGA dies.

Your idea of Maga is anyone who disagrees with you. So the left will be nice when everyone agrees with them? What a joke. You are the single most hateful person I've ever seen post online and that says a lot.

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I'm proud of you. You didn't even throw a libtard in there.


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OCD gets the most hateful award.
You get the most miserable award.

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Wow! I gave you credit for being more civil than usual and that's your response? I won't bother telling you what award I think you qualify for.


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Whether you know it or not, you captured and proved his point spot on. Lol


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I don't need your credit or affirmation. Nobody does. When you stop acting like a self absorbed troll, I'll start caring what you think.

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So much for trying to be nice. I see that isn't an approach you're fond of. Speaking of self absorbed troll, are you reading what you're posting?


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So much for trying to be nice. I see that isn't an approach you're fond of. Speaking of self absorbed troll, are you reading what you're posting?

Where’s Vers when we need him?


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I'm not a troll though. I don't sit there arguing against every single post by every single person ever. You do. That's all I have left to say to you. Enjoy being wrong.

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The self-proclaimed Champion of Women is ganging up w/another male to pick on a female. What tough guys they are.

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Judge, jury and executioner. Who is it that self absorbed again?

I love it when people who hate anything that opposes their views accuse others of arguing rather than calling it what it is. A counterpoint in the debate. That there are differing viewpoints to almost everything and when you have an opposing view, they will call it arguing. It's a not so clever way to try and dismiss the opposition. But join the crowd in using that as a deflection.


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The self-proclaimed Champion of Women is ganging up w/another male to pick on a female. What tough guys they are.

And what is it that I said you find so offensive? Are you seriously trying to compare sexual assault to a back and forth disagreement on the internet? Why yes you are. I understand why you of all people would try to make up something to excuse the fact you wouldn't stand up against sexual assault.

And you all people talking about being a tough guy. rofl


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Once again, you are misrepresenting my position. You simply can't help yourself. That happens when one has no sense of morality.

For those of you who don't know the backstory........I never excused sexual assault. I maintained that I did not know if Watson was innocent or guilty and that I would let the court system decide his fate. That got turned into me "hating women," "supporting a sexual predator," etc. That is what Pit and his cronies constantly do.

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You stated you would accept Judge Robinson's decision. Her decision was that watson committed sexual assault. Afterwords you decided to accept the punishment but not her decision. The only one trying to rewrite history here is you.


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You stated you would accept Judge Robinson's decision. Her decision was that watson committed sexual assault. Afterwords you decided to accept the punishment but not her decision. The only one trying to rewrite history here is you.
100% truth.


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Florida has passed, and had signed, their Constitutional carry bill.

More blood in the streets and yahoos shooting everything to solve every problem. 26th state and counting (Nebraska should be soonish, and SC might get there too).

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