Having intelligent conversation is not grandstanding.

grandstanding
/ˈɡran(d)ˌstandiNG/
nounDEROGATORY
the action of behaving in a showy or ostentatious manner in an attempt to attract favorable attention from spectators or the media.

Sounds like that fits you to a tee. Quit whining, we'll converse wherever we see fit. Most threads on this (and any) board are derailed post after post. We choose to peel back layers of the political onion; you just want to throw onions.

Get a job, I'm sure they miss u @ work.