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I come to this forum each day and read a few hateful posts and then leave because it is so depressing. This thread is a positive thread about a college trying to help young at-risk men and the power of positive thinking. Pleas read and view the video. It's inspiring....... Watch | NBA TV's 'Beyond the Paint' to feature Louisville's Simmons College basketball programNBA TV will put Louisville's Simmons College in the spotlight this week when it airs a documentary on the program at 11 p.m. Tuesday on "Beyond the Paint." Courier-Journal columnist Tim Sullivan recently wrote about the non-scholarship program run by former Louisville and NBA basketball player Jerry Eaves, whose goal is to get at-risk young men into college with basketball. From that story, which you can read in its entirety here: College basketball at Simmons serves a larger purpose than extra-curricular entertainment. It is a non-scholarship program designed to draw disadvantaged youth into the classroom and away from the streets. The Rev. Kevin Cosby, the Simmons College president who has grown the school’s enrollment from 44 to 250, refers to it, simply, as “bait.” “The ultimate objective is to develop men of character, and sports is just a means to get them into school,” said Cosby, seated courtside at the St. Stephen Family Life Center for Monday's game between the National Christian College Athletic Association teams. “Some of these kids were ineligible, so they had to work hard to get their academics in place for them to become eligible. That’s character. That’s how you develop character. “We didn’t lower the standards to accommodate the kids. We required them to raise their standards to meet our requirements.” Enjoy the clip above and watch "Beyond the Paint" for the full segment. http://www.courier-journal.com/story/spo...ogram/98804770/I found this story to be very inspirational. Can we have a thread where we celebrate the good instead of hating on one another for once?
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Can we have a thread where we celebrate the good instead of hating on one another for once? Here you go: https://www.dawgtalkers.net/ubbthreads.ph...ead#Post1213233
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Regarding Louisville's Simmons College basketball program.
Definitely, a good news story.
“The Rev. Kevin Cosby, the Simmons College president who has grown the school’s enrollment from 44 to 250, refers to it, simply, as “bait.”
This is a great idea for improving general black US culture.
But it is miniscule. (Tiny - not even a drop in the bucket. Maybe a drop in Louisville. Only a drop.)
If I was king, I’d send counsel to meet with Rev. Cosby. To evaluate this school/program. To evaluate it’s potential and to see if Rev. Cosby would be amenable to developing this program further.
This is a lot.
If things came together, this program would receive serious federal funding.
There’s a lot of potential here to improving things. But many serious obstacles. (I don’t think insurmountable obstacles)
Good job and good luck Rev. Cosby.
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We're only allowed to have one positive thread? LOL
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We're only allowed to have one positive thread? LOL You're the one that said "for once". LOL
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Watched the clip, and read the story. That's the type of program, and idea, that will turn a few lives around. I've seen it happen. Obviously the kids need to respond to the opportunity. Not all will, but some do.
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A couple years ago, I mentioned in an EE thread that there were stories like this being played out all across the country, just beneath the radar. At the same time, I also mentioned that those stories almost always got local coverage- and nothing more.
When stories like this go national, there is always a chance that they can become viral, as well. Others see something that works and say, "Hey- I can do that right here in my own home town!"
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I've never discussed this on the forum before, but I formulated a theory many years ago: that much of our society's combativeness and lack of civility in discussing emotionally- and politically- charged subjects comes from the conditioning we've gotten from the news media.
The old adage, "If it bleeds, it leads" was begun long ago, and has had a deleterious effect on the national mood ever since. Here's why I think as I do:
Back when this approach was adopted, the 'bleed headline' was found to be effective to steal viewership/reader share from other outlets, but the bulk of the news (across all competing outlets) was still fairly balanced/informative in nature. As others picked up on the trend, The News started its downward spiral... until it became a constant source of the worst things Mankind could do to itself.
Then, when cable news became a platform for the profit-based 'ratings race,' the lid was blown off- and 'Evil went viral.' (So did banality, stupidity, and 'trivia masquerading as news,' but that's a subject that deserves its own thread...)
That constant drip, drip, drip of murdertorturerapewarplaguepestillencegangviolencehumantrafficingetc. eroded our sense of common decency and courtesy to others. It also warped our sense of reality... because we were no longer getting balance in what was being reported. Good stuff was happening, but news coverage? Not a chance. The media had successfully (if mindlessly) conditioned its clientele to prefer bloodsport over nuanced stories of human interaction and positivity. And a price for this trade-off was exacted from our souls.
Then... the internet showed up. "News, al a carte." Served up the way you want it- without all those pesky competing POV's. Cycle through all the sites that bolster one's confirmation bias... and 'cut loose on the world' in the comment sections attached to each article.
'Critical thought process'... dealt a death-blow.
And here we are.
Now, we have anonymous flame wars on message boards, where we expect the worst from others, and display the worst of ourselves. I recognized this effect in myowndamnself about 2 decades ago- and adopted a personal policy that I've followed religiously ever since: at regular intervals, I'll take a self-imposed 'news blackout.' Sometimes, it's 2-3 days. Other times, it can last as long as 2-3 weeks. No news on TV. No news in the car. Explore new artists in iTunes/Soundcloud. Crank up the stereo. Read a book. Attend a play or art exhibit. Refrain from debates at Dawgtalkers.
New-Agers call it 'cleansing,' but I've been doing it since before they were even a thing. It does absolutely nothing to re-orient my base philosophy, but it does wonders for my 'coping skills'... and how I self- monitor the remarks that I make to those with whom I disagree.
I still backslide more often than I'd like... but I'm a much better 'version of myself' than I'd be, if I hadn't done this work on myself. I hope that my efforts have made me a better citizen of this cyberplace than I'd be- if I hadn't even made the effort.
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I love stories like this.
Been a part of a few of them myself, over the years- in my own small way. The personal reward comes from seeing someone break the mental and social chains that hold others down, and levitate themselves to new possibilities. This man does it through sports and school. I do it through music and The Arts. Both lead people in the same direction: self-knowledge, discipline, working toward a distant goal one day at a time, rising above temporary setbacks/failures ("eyes on the prize"), belief in one's self, etc.
IMO, there can't be enough threads like this, no matter who starts them or participates in them. I'm down for each and every one of them, because:
We're all different. We all respond to different stimuli. And there's no telling which thread, remark, or individual post will inspire one of us to try his/her own version of something like this.
For all the partisan bickering, smack-talk, and 'gotcha' moments we drop upon each other here, I remain convinced that the lion's share of us are good people at heart. And good people, motivated by deep passion, can do wonders within their own personal spheres.
"Think global/act local." "Men go crazy in congregations; they only get better one-by-one."
If I find a thread like this, I'm gonna support it in whatever way I can... even if they are sponsored by 'internet mortal enemies' who are both (or all) happen to be friends of mine.
'Greater Good' is the message. I want to be one of THOSE messengers. New day/renewed effort.
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We're only allowed to have one positive thread? LOL You're the one that said "for once". LOL Yes, I did. And you were the one to poke fun at it. What a guy.
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Watched the clip, and read the story. That's the type of program, and idea, that will turn a few lives around. I've seen it happen. Obviously the kids need to respond to the opportunity. Not all will, but some do. No, not all will. But, at least they are being given a chance. I better clarify...I know you agree w/me. It's hard to read tone on a message board. Those of us who have the ability to help others can only do what we are capable of doing. We give our best shot to help those in need. We won't always succeed, but at least we are trying to improve things rather than spreading more hate. Thanks for responding, bro.............You are a cool guy.
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Awesome post. I just wanna let your post stand and not ruin it by responding to your exquisite elegance, but I will simply add to this: Greater Good' is the message. I want to be one of THOSE messengers. New day/renewed effort. The hate, bias, closed-minded hate is all around us. I feel engulfed by it at times. It can be debilitating. I watched that video last night after a BB game and recognized a couple of the coaches. In fact, Butch Beard used to play for the Cavs back in the day. Greaves was a good PG for Louisville and also played in the pros. The university president or whatever his title was impressed me w/his intelligence and integrity. The s#!+ moved me. Inspired me. Made me wanna reach out to you guys.........and bro.......I was so hoping you would reply. I've been dealing w/my son's issues and some of my own health issues lately and have neglected my crusade to help others. That piece has motivated me to take up the cause again. And yeah, bro...........let's commit to spreading some good news on this board. I am so tired of reading all the hateful posts where one side bashes another. How about we try to lift each other up instead of knocking one another down?
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We're only allowed to have one positive thread? LOL You're the one that said "for once". LOL Yes, I did. And you were the one to poke fun at it. What a guy. I didn't poke fun, I pointed out that your statement was false and provided proof.
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A couple years ago, I mentioned in an EE thread that there were stories like this being played out all across the country, just beneath the radar. At the same time, I also mentioned that those stories almost always got local coverage- and nothing more.
When stories like this go national, there is always a chance that they can become viral, as well. Others see something that works and say, "Hey- I can do that right here in my own home town!"
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I've never discussed this on the forum before, but I formulated a theory many years ago: that much of our society's combativeness and lack of civility in discussing emotionally- and politically- charged subjects comes from the conditioning we've gotten from the news media.
The old adage, "If it bleeds, it leads" was begun long ago, and has had a deleterious effect on the national mood ever since. Here's why I think as I do:
Back when this approach was adopted, the 'bleed headline' was found to be effective to steal viewership/reader share from other outlets, but the bulk of the news (across all competing outlets) was still fairly balanced/informative in nature. As others picked up on the trend, The News started its downward spiral... until it became a constant source of the worst things Mankind could do to itself.
Then, when cable news became a platform for the profit-based 'ratings race,' the lid was blown off- and 'Evil went viral.' (So did banality, stupidity, and 'trivia masquerading as news,' but that's a subject that deserves its own thread...)
That constant drip, drip, drip of murdertorturerapewarplaguepestillencegangviolencehumantrafficingetc. eroded our sense of common decency and courtesy to others. It also warped our sense of reality... because we were no longer getting balance in what was being reported. Good stuff was happening, but news coverage? Not a chance. The media had successfully (if mindlessly) conditioned its clientele to prefer bloodsport over nuanced stories of human interaction and positivity. And a price for this trade-off was exacted from our souls.
Then... the internet showed up. "News, al a carte." Served up the way you want it- without all those pesky competing POV's. Cycle through all the sites that bolster one's confirmation bias... and 'cut loose on the world' in the comment sections attached to each article.
'Critical thought process'... dealt a death-blow.
And here we are.
Now, we have anonymous flame wars on message boards, where we expect the worst from others, and display the worst of ourselves. I recognized this effect in myowndamnself about 2 decades ago- and adopted a personal policy that I've followed religiously ever since: at regular intervals, I'll take a self-imposed 'news blackout.' Sometimes, it's 2-3 days. Other times, it can last as long as 2-3 weeks. No news on TV. No news in the car. Explore new artists in iTunes/Soundcloud. Crank up the stereo. Read a book. Attend a play or art exhibit. Refrain from debates at Dawgtalkers.
New-Agers call it 'cleansing,' but I've been doing it since before they were even a thing. It does absolutely nothing to re-orient my base philosophy, but it does wonders for my 'coping skills'... and how I self- monitor the remarks that I make to those with whom I disagree.
I still backslide more often than I'd like... but I'm a much better 'version of myself' than I'd be, if I hadn't done this work on myself. I hope that my efforts have made me a better citizen of this cyberplace than I'd be- if I hadn't even made the effort.
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I love stories like this.
Been a part of a few of them myself, over the years- in my own small way. The personal reward comes from seeing someone break the mental and social chains that hold others down, and levitate themselves to new possibilities. This man does it through sports and school. I do it through music and The Arts. Both lead people in the same direction: self-knowledge, discipline, working toward a distant goal one day at a time, rising above temporary setbacks/failures ("eyes on the prize"), belief in one's self, etc.
IMO, there can't be enough threads like this, no matter who starts them or participates in them. I'm down for each and every one of them, because:
We're all different. We all respond to different stimuli. And there's no telling which thread, remark, or individual post will inspire one of us to try his/her own version of something like this.
For all the partisan bickering, smack-talk, and 'gotcha' moments we drop upon each other here, I remain convinced that the lion's share of us are good people at heart. And good people, motivated by deep passion, can do wonders within their own personal spheres.
"Think global/act local." "Men go crazy in congregations; they only get better one-by-one."
If I find a thread like this, I'm gonna support it in whatever way I can... even if they are sponsored by 'internet mortal enemies' who are both (or all) happen to be friends of mine.
'Greater Good' is the message. I want to be one of THOSE messengers. New day/renewed effort.
.02, Clem. I'm glad I posted in this thread before you did, Clem. A post like that is a tough act to follow, it would be like me walking onstage with a guitar just after Hendrix played at Woodstock  . Kudos to you, sir ( and not for the first time).
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I've never discussed this on the forum before, but I formulated a theory many years ago: that much of our society's combativeness and lack of civility in discussing emotionally- and politically- charged subjects comes from the conditioning we've gotten from the news media. You didn't develop that theory, I did.  You are correct. Back in the 90s I listened to and watched a lot of Fox News because it was new and I generally agreed with their opinion shows... I was basically falling for confirmation bias and wasn't even aware of it. Then as Fox News became more and more hadcore it became harder and harder to watch... this was in the mid 2000s. They would complain that liberal media would only have conservatives on to mock them and shout them down, then they would have liberals on and mock them and shout them down... it really turned me off.. and it was the same guests all the time. Then I took quite a break from "news" and actually got most of my information from good ol' DawgTalkers.. Then I started listening to POTUS on Sirius/XM.. they have different opinions but they allow opinions to be expressed and discussed in an intelligent fashion and they have guests on that I'm not familiar with who bring fresh perspectives.. Now recently I've started listening to BBC on S/XM and I really enjoy it. They talk about US politics but it's just another story, then they talk about stories from around the world.. and the one thing I've found is that the problems we have, are going on everywhere... maybe not all exactly the same, maybe on a different scale, but just in the last couple days the dominant stories have been that.... nationalism and immigration control is a huge issue all over Europe and Asia... political extremes exist in almost every country that has legitimate elections... government distrust is everywhere... on one hand, it has made me feel better that in our own bubble we are lead to believe that most of the rest of the world has their collective "stuff" together and we don't... then I listen to the news and realize that those countries in Europe that are mocking us, they all have their own problems... on the other hand it makes me sad that perhaps this is the new global normal and there really isn't any "model" of how to get out of it..
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