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The 16-year-old girl was visibly intoxicated, her speech slurred, when a drunk 16-year-old boy sexually assaulted her in a dark basement during an alcohol-fueled pajama party in New Jersey, prosecutors said.

The boy filmed himself penetrating her from behind, her torso exposed, her head hanging down, prosecutors said. He later shared the cellphone video among friends, investigators said, and sent a text that said, “When your first time having sex was rape.”

But a family court judge said it wasn’t rape. Instead, he wondered aloud if it was sexual assault, defining rape as something reserved for an attack at gunpoint by strangers.

He also said the young man came from a good family, attended an excellent school, had terrific grades and was an Eagle scout. Prosecutors, the judge said, should have explained to the girl and her family that pressing charges would destroy the boy’s life.
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So he denied prosecutors’ motion to try the 16-year-old as an adult. “He is clearly a candidate for not just college but probably for a good college,” Judge James Troiano of Superior Court said last year in a two-hour decision while sitting in Monmouth County.

Now the judge has been sharply rebuked by an appeals court in a scathing 14-page ruling that warned the judge against showing bias toward privileged teenagers.

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In doing so, the appeals court cleared the way for the case to be moved from family court to a grand jury, where the teenager, identified only as G.M.C. in court documents, will be treated as an adult. New Jersey law allows juveniles as young as 15 to be tried as adults when accused of serious crimes, and the grand jury will weigh whether to indict him on the sexual assault accusation.

In recent years, judges across the country have come under fire for the way they have handled sexual abuse cases. One of the most notorious was in 2016, when a judge in California sentenced a Stanford University student to six months in jail after he was found guilty of sexually assaulting an unconscious woman. After an intense public backlash, California voters recalled the judge.

Judge Troiano, who is roughly 70, was one of two family court judges whom appeals courts in New Jersey have criticized in recent weeks over relatively similar issues.
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In the other case, the appellate division reversed another judge’s decision not to try a 16-year-old boy as an adult after he was accused of sexually assaulting a 12-year-old girl in 2017.

The second family court judge, Marcia Silva, sitting in Middlesex County, denied a motion to try the teenager as an adult and said that “beyond losing her virginity, the State did not claim that the victim suffered any further injuries, either physical, mental or emotional.”

The appellate judges also upbraided Judge Silva, overturning her decision and noting that the teenager could be culpable because the 12-year-old was not old enough to provide consent in the first place.

The judge in Monmouth County, Mr. Troiano, was scolded by the appellate court, according to the panel’s decision. “That the juvenile came from a good family and had good test scores we assume would not condemn the juveniles who do not come from good families and do not have good test scores from withstanding waiver application,” the panel wrote in its decision.

A spokeswoman for the administrative office of the courts said the judges had no comment on the case. She said Mr. Troiano, a veteran judge who retired several years ago, was asked to occasionally fill vacancies on the bench.

Family court cases are typically closed to the public, but the judges’ comments surfaced in June when the appeals court decisions were made public, joining a series of contentious sexual assault cases that have ignited outrage over a legal system that advocates for victims say is warped by bias and privilege.

In the first case, heard by Judge Troiano, it is unclear from court documents when and specifically where in New Jersey the incident involving the two 16-year-olds took place.
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But prosecutors said it occurred during a party packed with 30 other teenagers. The case was highlighted by a New Jersey radio station, 101.5.

The victim was identified only as Mary, an alias to protect her identity.

Before the episode, prosecutors said, both teenagers walked into a darkened area of the basement and Mary stumbled as she walked.

“While on the sofa, a group of boys sprayed Febreze on Mary’s bottom and slapped it with such force that the following day she had hand marks on her buttocks,” according to court documents.

After the assault, prosecutors said, G.M.C. left the room, but some of his concerned friends checked on her. Mary was found on the floor vomiting, and she was driven home by a friend’s mother.

When Mary woke up the following morning, she was confused about her torn clothing and bruises on her body, and told her mother she feared “sexual things had happened at the party” without her consent, court documents said.

Over the next several months, she learned that G.M.C. had shared the video among friends, but, when confronted, he denied recording the encounter and said the friends were lying, according to court documents.

Eventually, Mary learned that the boy had continued to share the video, prompting her mother to contact the authorities and ultimately pursue criminal charges in 2017.
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In September 2017, the Monmouth County prosecutor’s office recommended that the case be tried in adult criminal court in part because the boy’s actions were “sophisticated and predatory.”

“At the time he led Mary into the basement gym, she was visibly intoxicated and unable to walk without stumbling,” the prosecutor wrote. “For the duration of the assault, the lights in the gym remained off and the door was barred by a foosball table. Filming a cellphone video while committing the assault was a deliberate act of debasement.”

The prosecutor said that the boy lied to Mary in the following months, while simultaneously sharing the video.

“This was neither a childish misinterpretation of the situation, nor was it a misunderstanding,” the prosecutor wrote. “G.M.C.’s behavior was calculated and cruel.”

In an interview, Christopher J. Gramiccioni, the county prosecutor said, “This is conduct that should be punished in adult court.”

“We subscribe to the idea that the juvenile system is supposed to be rehabilitative,” he said. “But when you’re dealing with charges as serious as these, it’s a whole different ball of wax.”

Mitchell J. Ansell, a lawyer for the teenage boy, did not return requests for comment.

Mr. Gramiccioni said New Jersey has a progressive juvenile system: Juvenile cases are not shown to juries, juvenile records are kept from public view and sentences are typically more lenient than when a person is tried as an adult.
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A recent law made it illegal to try defendants younger than 15 as adults.

On July 30, 2018, Judge Troiano denied the waiver to try the teenager as an adult, arguing that prosecutors had abused their discretion.

Judge Troiano said there was a “distinction” between “a sexual assault and a rape.”

He said “the traditional case of rape” generally involved two or more males using a gun or weapon to corner a victim into an abandoned house, shed or shack, “and just simply taking advantage of the person as well as beating the person, threatening the person.”

It was under those egregious circumstances, he said, that the state would try a juvenile in adult court.

He delved into the facts of the case, questioning “whether or not this young lady was intoxicated to the point that she didn’t understand what was going on.”

He said the boy’s actions were not sophisticated or predatory, and dismissed G.M.C.’s text messages as “just a 16-year-old kid saying stupid crap to his friends.”

“This young man comes from a good family who put him into an excellent school where he was doing extremely well,” the judge said. “His scores for college entry were very high.”

The appellate decision criticized the judge, writing that rather than focusing on whether prosecutors met the necessary standards for a waiver, “the judge decided the case for himself.”
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The judge overstepped in deconstructing the circumstances of the case, making his own assessment of the boy’s culpability and considering the defendant’s prior good character, the appellate panel said.

“His consideration of these elements, however, sounded as if he had conducted a bench trial on the charges rather than neutrally reviewed the State’s application,” the panel said.

In 2004, Judge Troiano imposed a gag order to prohibit people in a courtroom from discussing the high-profile case of two Montclair High School football players accused of sexually assaulting a schoolmate. The charges were eventually dropped.


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Thats sad.

I support neutering for all males convicted of a sex crime.

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What about females? I know one that ties men up.

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Bet he's not black or hispanic.

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Sexual assault is sexual assault, she doesnt need her ovaries either.

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Originally Posted By: EveDawg
Sexual assault is sexual assault, she doesnt need her ovaries either.


Wait. Did you just equate males losing their testicles to a female losing her ovaries? I see how you reached that conclusion but I doubt many men would agree it's the same.

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Thats sad.

I support neutering for all males convicted of a sex crime.


It’s about control. Neutering won’t stop the behavior. IMO convicted sex criminals should be a life incarceration or death penalty.


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The boy filmed himself penetrating her from behind, her torso exposed, her head hanging down, prosecutors said. He later shared the cellphone video among friends, investigators said, and sent a text that said, “When your first time having sex was rape.”


That is beyond disgusting. I feel so awful for the girl and her family. That has to be a terrible thing to live with.

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Bet he's not black or hispanic.


You mean like Jussie Smollett?

Both men should be prosecuted according to the LAW and not according to someone's whim as to what is "fair".

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Prosecutors, the judge said, should have explained to the girl and her family that pressing charges would destroy the boy’s life.


Prosecutors should have explained to the boy and the judge that raping a young woman scars her for life....and the consequence for rape is a long ass prison sentence.


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U know .... maybe they oughta have performed the act on the judge and we could see how good a kid he thought he was then ...

Sometimes this stuff don’t make sense ... this reeks of a PAYOUT!!!




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U know .... maybe they oughta have performed the act on the judge and we could see how good a kid he thought he was then ...

Sometimes this stuff don’t make sense ... this reeks of a PAYOUT!!!


You mean like Jussie Smollett?

Wait...is there an echo in here?

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I agree on Smollett. He should have gone to jail. The lawyers and judges pulled some kind of crap on that. I think there was more to the story myself.

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Anyone who rapes a woman should go to jail for it. Not every reported rape is an actual rape, but that can not be an excuse when rape is rape. This was rape.

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Originally Posted By: WSU Willie
You mean like Jussie Smollett?

Wait...is there an echo in here?


Only a sick individual would equate faking an assault to raping a teen age girl. You're on sick puppy.


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It's like I've said for years. There's Just Us and then there's justice.

Two sets of rules depending on your wealth and status.


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If that was my daughter, I'd torture him before I killed him. I'd have to get to him before my wife, as she'd be cutting parts off.

Stupid judge, a good kid does not rape, and especially doesn't brag about rape and show his friends video.


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So he denied prosecutors’ motion to try the 16-year-old as an adult. “He is clearly a candidate for not just college but probably for a good college,” Judge James Troiano of Superior Court said last year in a two-hour decision while sitting in Monmouth County.


I think the kid should get some special privileges. you know like be locked up with another college bound rapists for 10 to 15 years in a state pen.


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Originally Posted By: PitDAWG
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You mean like Jussie Smollett?

Wait...is there an echo in here?


Only a sick individual would equate faking an assault to raping a teen age girl. You're on sick puppy.


Only a true TDS sufferer would suggest that I am equating the two illegal actions as being the same.

As typical, you are connecting dots from different books...let alone different pages.

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TDS TDS TDS TDS TDS TDS TDS broken record just keeps playing...

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TDS TDS TDS TDS TDS TDS TDS broken record just keeps playing...


I know. It must be awful for you guys to live with.

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The judge needs to go... 70 years old, thanks for your service, enjoy your retirement... then the boy needs to be tried with the full force of the law in front of somebody who hasn't already made up their mind.


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You still can't seem to comprehend that the justice system favors those with money and power. It's not about race or which political party you belong to.

And yes, when there is an actual victim, it makes a difference.

You're the one who is in a thread about a girl who was raped and bringing up Jesse Smollett. Don't play the victim now.


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Originally Posted By: PitDAWG
You still can't seem to comprehend that the justice system favors those with money and power. It's not about race or which political party you belong to.

And yes, when there is an actual victim, it makes a difference.

You're the one who is in a thread about a girl who was raped and bringing up Jesse Smollett. Don't play the victim now.


You will choose to misinterpret an misrepresent what I am saying to meet your agenda. My actual words vs. your desired interpretation of my intent.

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Neuter the kid. His genes are not needed in the gene pool.

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Sexual assault is sexual assault, she doesnt need her ovaries either.


Wait. Did you just equate males losing their testicles to a female losing her ovaries? I see how you reached that conclusion but I doubt many men would agree it's the same.


One produces sperm, the other produces eggs. Its the same.

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The best thing we can do is educate our young men that this isn't acceptable. We also need to educate our your women that things like this can be prevented early on.

I am not blaming this young lady, I have a daughter of my own, but people like to flirt with other people. If you go out and get drunked up, bad things can happen. It's just human nature between males and females. Females need to take some of the responsibility.

I know my comments aren't going to fly around here, but it is the truth.

Both of these kids parents should feel like they failed.

My daughter hated me when she was 16. If the young man showed up at the door looking like I hoped he looked like, I told him to go home and change, or don't come back.

The same with my sons...they dressed the way I would want a young man to show up at my door, or they couldn't use one of the cars.

To me it was about respect. Respect for the other person and their family, and our family. Look right, act right....and be home by mid-night. The boys I gave a little slack since they had to take the girl home by midnight. If the girls parents wanted her home earlier, great, but if not, he had to have them home by midnight as he had to be home with-in a reasonable time to drive from their home to ours. Usually 15-30 minutes


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Originally Posted By: EveDawg
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Sexual assault is sexual assault, she doesnt need her ovaries either.


Wait. Did you just equate males losing their testicles to a female losing her ovaries? I see how you reached that conclusion but I doubt many men would agree it's the same.


One produces sperm, the other produces eggs. Its the same.



As a man that has been a victim of menopause, they do a lot more than produce eggs.


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Absolutely pathetic by the judge... unreal..


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Sexual assault is sexual assault, she doesnt need her ovaries either.


Wait. Did you just equate males losing their testicles to a female losing her ovaries? I see how you reached that conclusion but I doubt many men would agree it's the same.


One produces sperm, the other produces eggs. Its the same.



As a man that has been a victim of menopause, they do a lot more than produce eggs.


This is true. Tubes tied is acceptable.

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I am not blaming this young lady, I have a daughter of my own, but people like to flirt with other people. If you go out and get drunked up, bad things can happen. It's just human nature between males and females. Females need to take some of the responsibility.


While I agree that we need to educate our daughters on the ways of the world, I do not like lumping the two main characters in this tragedy together and putting one umbrella over them.

The young lady made a mistake. However, she did not deserve to be raped and then humiliated by having the videos of the rape shared w/her peers.

The young man committed a heinous crime that should result in years of imprisonment. He is a parasite that preyed on his victim.

Thus, I think you need to separate the two when addressing what happened.

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So he denied prosecutors’ motion to try the 16-year-old as an adult. “He is clearly a candidate for not just college but probably for a good college,” Judge James Troiano of Superior Court said last year in a two-hour decision while sitting in Monmouth County.


I think the kid should get some special privileges. you know like be locked up with another college bound rapists for 10 to 15 years in a state pen.


Is that all? Really? Pfft


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Originally Posted By: EveDawg
Neuter the kid. His genes are not needed in the gene pool.


A tad too late.


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I’m all good with a legalized abortion being retroactive up to age 18 in cases like this.

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So he denied prosecutors’ motion to try the 16-year-old as an adult. “He is clearly a candidate for not just college but probably for a good college,” Judge James Troiano of Superior Court said last year in a two-hour decision while sitting in Monmouth County.


I think the kid should get some special privileges. you know like be locked up with another college bound rapists for 10 to 15 years in a state pen.


Is that all? Really? Pfft


I believe the average sentence for rape is 9.8 years in this country.


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wow...this is fake news right? can't be serious...

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I believe the average sentence for rape is 9.8 years in this country.


Unless you suffer from "Affluenza"...
...then, you might not do time at all.


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I am not blaming this young lady, I have a daughter of my own, but people like to flirt with other people. If you go out and get drunked up, bad things can happen. It's just human nature between males and females. Females need to take some of the responsibility.


While I agree that we need to educate our daughters on the ways of the world, I do not like lumping the two main characters in this tragedy together and putting one umbrella over them.

The young lady made a mistake. However, she did not deserve to be raped and then humiliated by having the videos of the rape shared w/her peers.

The young man committed a heinous crime that should result in years of imprisonment. He is a parasite that preyed on his victim.

Thus, I think you need to separate the two when addressing what happened.


It's like comparing disorderly conduct to first degree murder.


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What's really sad about this, if that boy had the hots for that girl and had protected her, he would have gotten himself a girlfriend that thought the world of him.


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The boy filmed himself penetrating her from behind, her torso exposed, her head hanging down, prosecutors said. He later shared the cellphone video among friends, investigators said, and sent a text that said, “When your first time having sex was rape.”


That is beyond disgusting. I feel so awful for the girl and her family. That has to be a terrible thing to live with.


I agree with everything you wrote. Drunken teenagers have been doing that forever, though. The difference is, now they've got cell phones, and worse, feel invincible. That's just the way they are.

A lot of 16-year olds aren't smart enough to understand the repercussions.

Peen, I'm curious: what did you expect your teenage daughter's suitor to wear? wink

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