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It IS about being yourself, no doubt in my mind about that one. But there's a gap you need to bridge in order to get that person to want to see the real you.
Sorry Bud, but if they can't see you by you being yourself, then one of you has problems. Ask any old folks (married more than 35 years) and most of them will tell you that their spouse is also their best friend. You don't get to be best friends by putting on an act in front of the other person. That might get you some "action" but it won't get you a real relationship.
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No, there's nothing wrong with asking her on the phone. Guys do it all the time. It doesn't show lack of confidence at all. I don't know where you got that notion.
DO NOT LISTEN TO WHAT THIS STEELERS FAN TELLS YOU!
I've taught you all I need to tell you. Cool, cocky, confident. All you need to know.
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Yes Brownie, don't listen to a woman how to get one. Listen to a guy. 
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Just get some old Too Short records, he'll break things down for you.
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As long as she's a Cleveland fan... All I can say is what everyone else has already told you: Just be yourself. It doesn't matter how you ask, you just have to do it. If you don't, you'll always have that "What if..." thought, and if you have enough of those you could be downright miserable. The way I see it, just talk to her as you would anybody else... Be confident, and just be direct. Like Jay said, try not to be vague. A simple "Would you like to grab some lunch with me", is just that. It's simple, and a good chance to get to know her. Good food and conversation is mucho excellente.  Let us know how it goes, we'll be pulling for you. Now I need to get a date. 
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You can always go the "go after the friend" route. If you are who you claim to be - the "guy who says yes or no" - try casually --- and I mean casually even talking to a friend of hers. Women - even at your age are catty - you'll know in an instant if the jealously in your main attraction pops out. If so, then go after the prize my little buddy...
Those 17-18 beers must have been really good, because I'm going to try this. I'm friends with one of her girlfriends. 
Glad the Beerdowner could be of service, Points... Good luck!
Keep "us" updated on how it works out.
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Just get some old Too Short records, he'll break things down for you.
Nominee for best response of the year in the category of giving advice
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No, there's nothing wrong with asking her on the phone. Guys do it all the time. It doesn't show lack of confidence at all. I don't know where you got that notion.
I've taught you all I need to tell you. Cool, cocky, confident. All you need to know.
OMG, does it get any more pathetic?? 
Brownie, please realize many of the people ^^^^^ giving you advice here can't buy a date.
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The worst that can happen is she said NO....and believe me all guys have been told no at some point in thier life...Go for it it's better to hear NO than always wondering....  If she says no to a date than tell her ok if ya wont go out with me do ya just wanna sleep with me from time to time.....
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OMG, does it get any more pathetic??
Well ummmm no not really
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No, there's nothing wrong with asking her on the phone. Guys do it all the time. It doesn't show lack of confidence at all. I don't know where you got that notion.
I've taught you all I need to tell you. Cool, cocky, confident. All you need to know.
OMG, does it get any more pathetic??
Brownie, please realize many of the people ^^^^^ giving you advice here can't buy a date.
I kinda laughed too when I read it...
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The worst that can happen is she said NO...
Depending on the girl the worst that could happen is she could say YES.  We've all known a girl that could ruin your life by agreeing to go out with you 
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So did you ask her yet? What are you waiting for? 
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So did you ask her yet? What are you waiting for?
It's Thanksgiving break, and she's in Wisconsin right now. 
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So call her, it's not every teenager that can get rejected from thousands of miles away...
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So did you ask her yet? What are you waiting for?
It's Thanksgiving break, and she's in Wisconsin right now.
Perfect! call her to wish her a happy turkey day
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nah, I'll wait and do it at school next week and follow BeerDowner's tip..
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nah, I'll wait and do it at school next week and follow BeerDowner's tip..
Good man
So she's also a cheesehead? Tell her you're a big Favre fan and she'll be puddy in your hands.
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nah, I'll wait and do it at school next week and follow BeerDowner's tip..
You do realize your taking the advice of the only person on this board who drinks more than me 
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nah, I'll wait and do it at school next week and follow BeerDowner's tip..
Good man
So she's also a cheesehead? Tell her you're a big Favre fan and she'll be puddy in your hands.
Nah, she's a Bucs fan..I think. 
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nah, I'll wait and do it at school next week and follow BeerDowner's tip..
You do realize your taking the advice of the only person on this board who drinks more than me
He is also taking the advice of someone who encourages him to lie. 
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nah, I'll wait and do it at school next week and follow BeerDowner's tip..
You do realize your taking the advice of the only person on this board who drinks more than me
He is also taking the advice of someone who encourages him to lie.
My advice will get him what he wants... 
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Well if you call that babe now either
A. She'll be so glad because she's so board with the weird cheese heads or
B. Think ur a freak
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My advice will get him what he wants.
Assuming that she's the same age as him, exactly what would that be? 
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My advice will get him what he wants.
Assuming that she's the same age as him, exactly what would that be?
Why...a small date while holding hands at the movies...what were you thinking?
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nah, I'll wait and do it at school next week and follow BeerDowner's tip..
You do realize your taking the advice of the only person on this board who drinks more than me
He is also taking the advice of someone who encourages him to lie.
and, frankly, act like an elementary school girl. 
I would not advise it, but what do I know, I'm just the same gender as the person he's trying to ask out.
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I think he need's a telescope!
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what were you thinking?
The same thing that everybody else was thinking, considering the source.
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Everyone is just a funny one aren't they..
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Here is the deal man.....just ask them out. All they can do is say no as long as you ask them in a gentlemanly manner.
Part of being a man is having women tell you no.....because that is part of being a woman...(it is their job to protect the gene pool).
Just ask......because that is the only way you are going to figure out where you stand in the eyes of the ladies.
That isn't being negative at all....it is telling you at some point you will have to focus on women where you stand a chance....at least until you have a pile of money....once you have that....looks don't matter as much.
Women seek security....all female creatures do...that is their number 2 criteria after they view you as a suitable father for the offspring...and the two are closely coupled.
Unless you are ugly or something.....looks don't matter much...at least in the way looks matter to males.
Be yourself, don't lie, and see where it takes you.
Happy hunting.
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Your young, my advice...
Work out, get as buff as you can.
Go to college and get the best degree you can.
Then you can choose which girl, and won't have to worry about how to get one, they will get you.
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Whatever you do.....don't wear a Bucs jersey, just because she is a Bucs fan....be yourself! Tell her everything that you feel for her....and don't lie! You are a young puppy that is learning about the ladies....tell her you have feelings for her, and you just want to go out for pizza or whatever! If that happens, then you are in a nice situation to have a good conversion with her.....just to see how you both get along! I am far from being a pro in this stituation.........but then again, I am far from being a puppy! Telling the truth about everything..........goes a long way! Good luck!
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And into the forest I go, to lose my mind and find my soul.
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Whatever you do.....don't wear a Bucs jersey, just because she is a Bucs fan....be yourself!
Your never gonna get over that are you? 
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Part of being a man is having women tell you no.....
I must be one hell of a man then... 
I think it's funny that BPoints came here for dating advice. I guess when he needs to know whether to run the cover 2 or play bump and run he probably writes to Dear Abbey.
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Just clicking... How old are you browniepoints?
I am just venting randomly here about my girlfriend. I swear she goes into RANDOM DEPRESSION MODE at least once a day. I really don't get it and I really don't do anything to make her upset. She just gets upset and then I have to console her until her RDM outbreak is over.
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Better than random beach mode.
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She just gets upset and then I have to console her until her RDM outbreak is over.
She will continue to get upset until you stop consoling her. It's not worth the emotional turmoil to continue the daily emotional games.....unless she has large breasts.
And into the forest I go, to lose my mind and find my soul.
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nah, I'll wait and do it at school next week and follow BeerDowner's tip..
You do realize your taking the advice of the person on this board who drinks more than everyone on Dawgtalkers combined
I corrected your typo GM ......
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AHHH I'm to old to retain my title, and to tired. I am glad to pass the torch to him and to slow down.
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