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I had to say something b/c I was about to bust hehe.
Sounds like you already did, but in all seriousness congrats.
I busted one alright 
Thanks guys,,I am still kinda in "shock and awe" right now and have a lot of things to figure out in the next 9 months like how to get a house. Plus the way my wife is taking this has me a little concerned,,like I don't know. I think this was just a huge shock to us and now we need to have a long talk and come up with some kind of plan to make this work.
What is even stranger is about a week ago I had a baby dream and so did she. This same thing happened before the last 2 and the one we lost. Now her mother said she too had a baby dream,,but in her dream it was TWIN DAUGHTERS. Good God no,,,lol. 
that's kinda weird that you had a dream about a babdy a week before you guys found out you were pregnant, i believe baby dreams have nothing to do with the birth of a child, but more the birth of an idea.
i read that somewhere a long time ago, but maybe there is some idea that you have
maybe you know what can fix the browns!
Well she is about a month along and we really had no idea but I did have a suspicion. Her "cycle" is all weird anyways and not regular b/c back about 9 years ago she was pregnant but lost the baby b/c the egg got stuck in the tube and she had to have emergency surgery. So the chances are only 50% of even having kids, and now look hehe. It's really weird b/c this is now 3 times that I have had a baby dream. In fact with Ali (the oldest) I posted a thread on the old Dawg Talk about dreams b/c I had a very vivid dream that we had a baby, and 5 days later we found out she was pregnant.
Unfortunately all of my Browns dreams we still never win hehe. I guess dreams really do come true.
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And yeah it seems everytime (now since this whole pregnancy thing seems to be a regular thing now) I hope and ask everyone to wish for a boy for me, maybe if I hope I get a girl I will have my son! It is so crazy,it just might work!
She's already pregnant right? Then that whole gender thing is over.. it's done. See first there is a sperm and it.... .well, you probably know the rest...
All we can do now is pray for health and happiness... God love ya man.
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And yeah it seems everytime (now since this whole pregnancy thing seems to be a regular thing now) I hope and ask everyone to wish for a boy for me, maybe if I hope I get a girl I will have my son! It is so crazy,it just might work!
She's already pregnant right? Then that whole gender thing is over.. it's done. See first there is a sperm and it.... .well, you probably know the rest...
All we can do now is pray for health and happiness... God love ya man.
And always remember... if you get another girl, it's your own fault.. 
but anyways Congrats.
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Congrats Lee! Our #2 will be here in about 3 months. Almost 7 years between 'em for us lol
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And yeah it seems everytime (now since this whole pregnancy thing seems to be a regular thing now) I hope and ask everyone to wish for a boy for me, maybe if I hope I get a girl I will have my son! It is so crazy,it just might work!
She's already pregnant right? Then that whole gender thing is over.. it's done. See first there is a sperm and it.... .well, you probably know the rest...
All we can do now is pray for health and happiness... God love ya man.
And always remember... if you get another girl, it's your own fault..
but anyways Congrats.
Yeah yeah I know both my wife and mother pointed out my "trouser troops" determine the sex of the baby, so if we have another daughter it's "my own fault" 
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Congrats Lee! Our #2 will be here in about 3 months. Almost 7 years between 'em for us lol
Ohh wow man great, congrats! 
How's your little guy doing?
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He's good. He's in first grade now. It's amazing how much he's grown up in the last year. He's more and more "kid" like everyday.
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Kool Lee...But ur gonna b like me....and have 3 girls......
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Congrats.........
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Kool Lee...But ur gonna b like me....and have 3 girls......
Hell no,,2009 is the year I finally get my son. bet it!
And for the future I am going to act like a clay target shooter,,,
"PULL" :shoot:
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I got 10 bucks on a girl
$20 on twin girls...
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I think we should start a poll on whether or not it'll be a girl or boy.
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I think we should start a poll on whether or not it'll be a girl or boy.
No need 
Mandy was driving to work early this morning and she hit ice and slammed her car into the wall on RT2. She is alright thankfully, but the airbag deployed and hit her chest and she lost the baby No heartbeat
I SWEAR if one more bad thing happens to us I am going to friken lose it. We have had nothing but bad happen to us and it just keeps pouring down like some torrential rain. I can't take this ... anymore. It's like God thinks it's funny to see how far he can push me till I break,,,,
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I am so sorry... thankfully she is ok. my thoughts and prayers are with you.
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Sorry 337. You and Mandy have my condolences.
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Thanks man. Yes thankfully she is OK. I know she was only a few months along but I heard the heartbeat,,we were pumped and planning on a house finally and boy's names and it was all taken away just like that. BooM!
I haven't cried in forever and I can't stop. This is a huge blow,,
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So sorry to hear that Lee. My thoughts and prayers are with you guys...
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I'm really glad your wife is ok Lee, but I'm very sorry to hear she lost the baby. I haven't been in those shoes before, but it has to be something very difficult to deal with.
Hang in there. Hopefully your run of bad luck and happenings will change for the best. I had an ex-girlfriend who hit a patch of ice back in 2000, which spun her across the highway and into the oncoming path of a semi.
She died at the scene. I know it seems like a negative right now losing the baby, but you still have your wife there for you. I know nothing I can say will help you feel any better about what happened, but I hope things will get easier for you.
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anymore. It's like God thinks it's funny to see how far he can push me till I break,,,,
I am very sorry for your loss. I have been there, so I know what you are going through.
I also realize that when bad things happen it is very easy feel like God has forsaken you. God does not make bad things happen, they happen on their own or through our(as human kind) own actions. God did not create the car, or the road, or the wall,or the airbag. Those are all man made things. God does not make those things happen, but he will give you the direction on how to get through them. Read my sig.
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So sorry, man. You and your family have my thoughts and prayers. I'm sure this is really tough, but you can get through it. Stay strong.
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Man bro, I am so sorry for your loss. I can't even imagine what you are feeling. Just thinking about it is making me swell up.
You are in my thoughts bro, hang tough and lean on your wife. She needs you just as much as you need her right now.
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Lee, so sorry for your loss. *hugs to you and Mandy*
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Sorry to hear about your loss Lee. It sucks that bad things happen.. I hope you guys get through it.
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I am so sorry Lee You and Mandy are in my prayer's my friend.
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Thanks a lot you guys, seriously. My wife was telling me that she feels bad b/c she was hysterical with the ER people screaming at them to call me and ripping off all the stuff they had on her. I feel bad too that I over reacted a little bit too questioning my faith in God and throwing that out on here. I came online to try and push my thoughts to something normal to not think about it for a brief minute and I came across my thread and got emotional all over again. I started thinking how the hell can so much bad stuff happen to two people?? I mean we have had a seriously rough year with her losing her job, me getting laid off, my spine, we dropped her insurance down to liability to save money a month ago and now this, it goes on and on. And we finally thought this year things are going to start happening. We got pregnant, I will be done with my first degree this year, we were going to finally get a house. Just Tuesday we decided that if we had a son his name was going to be Benjamin Lee And it starts all over again when I received a hysterical call from my wife asking for help I have been here for 8 years and a lot of you I consider good friends and like my family. I mean I even flew out to Arizona for the OSU game by myself to hang out with Shotty and we really didn't know each other except on here. So, I apologize if anyone took offense to my words. At the time my 2 daughters were the only ones around me and were crying b/c daddy was crying and I just needed to talk to other adults. I do pray every night and am blessed with 2 daughters I adore, but when your down and getting kicked in the head over and over,,I don't know. One other thing, the wife is pretty banged up but OK. Her OB Doctor said there is a shot the baby is still alive b/c the ER did not do an ultrasound. They just checked all over and didn't find a heartbeat anymore,,so there's small hope the baby made it though, but she said not to get excited or anything.
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No one took offense to what you said Lee, you're going through a horrible time... Just know that we share the same feelings for you and that we'll be praying for you and your family. We'll be here if you need us, whatever we can do let us know.
Again Lee, I'm so sorry.
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Thanks bro 
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So, I apologize if anyone took offense to my words.
Dude? Really? Really???? If you ever listen to the Maxwell Show you will recognize that
Of course no one was offended by your words. The thoughts and emotions you are having are a completely normal reaction. I have many times said what have I done to deserve this?" Your faith is what will get you and your wife through this difficult time.
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I feel bad too that I over reacted a little bit too questioning my faith in God and throwing that out on here.
I was never offended by anything you said at all either. It's a normal reaction.
But maybe you should open your Bible and read the Story of Job..
But anyways, I wish you the best and always keep your mind on the times ahead.. You have to take the good times along with the bad times... There is plenty of more opportunities for good times ahead.
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