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Sincere question. If you, or others can't list benefits aside from what I've listed - substantial benefits - what's all the hoopla about?
I listed several tax advantages afforded married vs unmarried people. If we want to discuss whether marriage should be tax advantaged or not that's a good discussion, but so long as marriage provides tax breaks than those tax breaks need to reciprocated no matter who issued the marriage certificate.
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And what was it that Jesus said about homosexuality and gay marriage?
Christ is quoted at one point that God created people “in the beginning” as male and female, and that marriage is the union of one man and one woman joined together as “one flesh.” (Matthew 19:4-6 and Mark 10:6-9) When He discussed sexual morality, Christ had a very high standard, clearly affirming long-standing Old Testament law. He told the woman caught in adultery to “Go and sin no more.” (John 8:11) He warned people that not only the act of adultery was wrong, but even adulterous thoughts (Matthew 5:28). And he shamed the woman at the well (John 4:18) by pointing out to her that he knew she was living with a man who was not her husband. Cool, so if we're still going by Old Testament law as affirmed by Jesus, then I take it that you and other strict Christians are not eating pork or other forbidden foods like shellfish or those that mix meat and dairy (bummer, no cheeseburgers), not wearing clothing made of more than one material (so much for those cotton/poly blend t-shirts), planting fields with only one crop, not trimming your beard or cutting your hair, not getting a tattoo, working on the Sabbath, etc. I'm sure you guys are obeying all of those laws and the ones I didn't list, right? Jesus's life fulfilled the Old Testament so Christians could live in sin.
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To hear some of these politicians and religious leaders go on about it, you'd think homosexuality was a sin worse than slavery, or murder, or even lying. But according to the Bible no sin is any less deserving of God's wrath than another.
There are only seven verses on homosexuality in the Bible. All of them are found in the Old Testament or in Paul's manuscripts. Compare this to hundreds of references to economic injustice, wealth redistribution, accumulating wealth, etc. I've often considered a classical interpretation of the Bible to be at odds with modern day Calvinism Christianity and deregulated Capitalism.
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Let them use these! Cherry picking manufacturers increase their stock value when social progress is made in this country! Just look at the production that happens today!
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I can accept that sins are legal, but that does not mean that I will speak approvingly of things I believe to be wrong from a Biblical stance, and I absolutely will not support them. That is my right. Which is exactly what I said. You are free to say that homosexuality is a sin, because the Bible says so. If that right is ever taken from you, count me on your side. Just don't act like it's unfair if those beliefs aren't taken into consideration when it comes to law. They shouldn't be taken seriously in that context. This is where we disagree. My religious beliefs have every right to be as respected as any one else's beliefs. You seem to believe that because someone has morals and beliefs defined by their religion that those are somehow inferior to morals and beliefs that are not defined by their religion. That is an absolutely ridiculous stance.
Micah 6:8; He has shown you, O mortal, what is good. And what does the Lord require of you? To act justly and to love mercy, and to walk humbly with your God.
John 14:19 Jesus said: Because I live, you also will live.
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Sadly there are not many real followers of God left in this country. This statement only holds weight and relative gravitas if one aligns themselves with your own (very) personal definition of 'real followers of God.' And that, My Friend, is exactly why this issue manged to trace its path all the way to the SCOTUS. Issues such as these cannot (and should not) be left to those who would see their religious beliefs supersede the rights of all other Americans who don't see things EXACTLY as they do. After all... we may or may not be 'One Nation, Under God'... but we most definitely ARE NOT: 'One Nation- Under Razorthorn's Idea of What God Intended For America.'++++++++++++++ Neither of us US Citizens deserves to totally have Our Way, because America deserves better than what either You or I (or our respective ilk) could ever deliver them. Filter that through your interpretation of The Gospel if you wish, but this has always been an Equal Rights issue, as far as the Law Of The Land has been concerned... NOT an issue of religion- or even 'spirituality.' They are, rightfully- two separate issues, where an entire nation's legacy is concerned. I thank God for empowering the Founding Fathers with the wisdom to protect me from 'Your America' every bit as much they did to protect you from Mine. The social construct we know as 'America' has always agreed to meet in the middle. ________________________ I'm humble enough (and patriotic enough) to actually be thankful for this provision of our nation's construct. By comparison, you seem to be the type who'd be happier (and more content) if all things political went your (religious) way. The only American who needs federal protection from the likes of you... ...is only every other American who doesn't fit your idea of what an 'American' should be. Forgive me... but I'm not yet ready to submit to some others' religiously-based idea of what America should mean to me. The scent of such a proposition is too unsettlingly similar to that of Sharia Law. 'MY America' don't do Sharia... in ANY of its forms. Your Fellow American Citizen, Clem. ================ .02
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you put it so elegantly man. jeez......that's awesome.
my crappy add on to that is this:
as taxpayers, why wouldn't gays be allowed to have the same civil liberties as us heterosexuals who also pay taxes?
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And what was it that Jesus said about homosexuality and gay marriage?
Christ is quoted at one point that God created people “in the beginning” as male and female, and that marriage is the union of one man and one woman joined together as “one flesh.” (Matthew 19:4-6 and Mark 10:6-9) When He discussed sexual morality, Christ had a very high standard, clearly affirming long-standing Old Testament law. He told the woman caught in adultery to “Go and sin no more.” (John 8:11) He warned people that not only the act of adultery was wrong, but even adulterous thoughts (Matthew 5:28). And he shamed the woman at the well (John 4:18) by pointing out to her that he knew she was living with a man who was not her husband. Cool, so if we're still going by Old Testament law as affirmed by Jesus, then I take it that you and other strict Christians are not eating pork or other forbidden foods like shellfish or those that mix meat and dairy (bummer, no cheeseburgers), not wearing clothing made of more than one material (so much for those cotton/poly blend t-shirts), planting fields with only one crop, not trimming your beard or cutting your hair, not getting a tattoo, working on the Sabbath, etc. I'm sure you guys are obeying all of those laws and the ones I didn't list, right? If you read the Bible, you will see that the ceremonial laws were done away with by Jesus' sacrifice. (and only after he had perfectly fulfilled every one) Yours is a very old debating point that only shows that the person using it really has not read and understood the Bible. I don't way that to insult you, but only make the point that your point was clearly refuted in the New Testament. Further, as a Gentile follower of Christ, I have never been subject to the ceremonial laws you bring up. That also was taught by Paul, in the New Testament, in Romans IIRC.
Micah 6:8; He has shown you, O mortal, what is good. And what does the Lord require of you? To act justly and to love mercy, and to walk humbly with your God.
John 14:19 Jesus said: Because I live, you also will live.
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then you might want to school your fellow brethren on not using old testament quotes to justify statements. cause then we will response based off those quotes.
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So, if gay marriage is constitutional and as such all states must recognize a gay marriage from another state... does that mean that since gun ownership is constitutional, that all other states must recognize my right to carry a gun?
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To hear some of these politicians and religious leaders go on about it, you'd think homosexuality was a sin worse than slavery, or murder, or even lying. But according to the Bible no sin is any less deserving of God's wrath than another.
There are only seven verses on homosexuality in the Bible. All of them are found in the Old Testament or in Paul's manuscripts. Compare this to hundreds of references to economic injustice, wealth redistribution, accumulating wealth, etc. I've often considered a classical interpretation of the Bible to be at odds with modern day Calvinism Christianity and deregulated Capitalism. I do agree with you that too many are concerned with the accumulation of wealth and "stuff", when they should, instead, be helping those less fortunate. I also find it unfortunate that this who gay marriage debate has become one where Christians as seen as somehow hateful. I don't deny that some people are hateful towards gay people. I see them as simply one more sinner, just like the rest of us. It is not the sinner that is the problem, it is the sin. I do think that many everyday Christians do offer a piece of what God has given them to be used to help others. Perhaps we do not offer enough. I don't know. The Bible offers 1/10th as a tithe ..... but I believe that we are expected to help beyond that as well, if we are able. You imply that Jesus said nothing about homosexuality, but He actually did. He did not use the words specifically, but what did he say? Let's look: (and I had this all in my earlier post on this thread, IIRC) In Matthew 19: 1-9, Jesus said: When Jesus had finished these words, He departed from Galilee and came into the region of Judea beyond the Jordan; and large crowds followed Him, and He healed them there.
Some Pharisees came to Jesus, testing Him and asking, “Is it lawful for a man to divorce his wife for any reason at all?” And He answered and said, “Have you not read that He who created them from the beginning MADE THEM MALE AND FEMALE, 5and said, ‘FOR THIS REASON A MAN SHALL LEAVE HIS FATHER AND MOTHER AND BE JOINED TO HIS WIFE, AND THE TWO SHALL BECOME ONE FLESH’? “So they are no longer two, but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, let no man separate.” They said to Him, “Why then did Moses command to GIVE HER A CERTIFICATE OF DIVORCE AND SEND her AWAY?” He said to them, “Because of your hardness of heart Moses permitted you to divorce your wives; but from the beginning it has not been this way. “And I say to you, whoever divorces his wife, except for immorality, and marries another woman commits adultery.”Jesus said "one man and one woman", not "one man and one man", or "one woman and one woman". If anyone knows anything about Jesus, He was not afraid to turn social convention on its head. If he felt that a gay marriage was within God's plan, He would have plainly said so. Instead, he plainly says the opposite. One man and one woman, becoming one flesh. It cannot be any more clear than that. Also in Matthew, chapter 19: 16-19, Jesus said the following: Just then a man came up to Jesus and asked, “Teacher, what good thing must I do to get eternal life?”
“Why do you ask me about what is good?” Jesus replied. “There is only One who is good. If you want to enter life, keep the commandments.”
“Which ones?” he inquired.
Jesus replied, “‘You shall not murder, you shall not commit adultery, you shall not steal, you shall not give false testimony, honor your father and mother,’ and ‘love your neighbor as yourself.’”What is adultery? Well, Jesus said that even looking upon a (woman) to lust after her is adultery. By simple extension, this can also be expanded to any person looking upon another person to lust after them. Women who lust after men are not somehow exempt, and neither are men who lust after men, or so on. Adultery at its basic definition, though, is extramarital or premarital sex. It is any sexual conduct that is not within the bonds of marriage. So, if we accept this as a true definition, and I don't know anyone who would debate that basic point, and that marriage, according to Jesus, is between one man and one woman, becoming one flesh, for life, and that adultery is absolutely wrong. (no matter what combination of genders are involved) For me, I have only spoken about homosexuality because it is the "hot topic". However, many of my posts also speak about the rampant divorce rate today, people who accept lying and stealing as perfectly acceptable, those who try to create their own God while saying that they are Christians, by trying to tell God what to believe, instead of believing and obeying what God tells us to do. Man, I fully admit that I was one of the world's worst sinners. Jesus Christ saved me from that. However, in my old life, I was a liar, an adulterer, an isolator, a thief, and more. I broke almost every of the 10 Commandments. Many people would be shocked, but should they be? We all tell lies. It is often more expedient to tell a lie, rather than the truth. We all commit adultery if we follow the definition Jesus gave us. We have all stolen, whether a physical item, or an idea stolen from someone else. Napster showed how happily people will take huge risks of having their own property (their computer) ruined just so they can steal something. They called it "sharing", but it was stealing, pure and simple. I created a god that did what I wanted, instead of doing what God demands of me. I had actually managed to talk myself into believing that because of what Paul taught, that I could go and sin to my hearts content, because I was forgiven anyway. I had convinced myself that I did not have to change at all, and that God should accommodate me, not that I should obey Him. I could go on and on ...... but you get the point. I was in open rebellion against God. Fortunately, He brought me back to Him, and showed me His light, grace, love, and mercy. I certainly did not deserve it. I believe that we are all sinners, and that we will all have sin in our lives until we are free from this world. However, we should not plan to sin, and make a conscious decision to rebel against God's Word. We may slip, but God does not want supposed followers who violate His laws in a willful and rebellious manner. This is where I see the problem with gay marriage. It establishes a relationship that the Bible says is sinful, and tries to make it seem legitimate .... which according to the Bible, it can never be. I don't want to see anyone condemned, but those in open rebellion to God will, I believe, be condemned. The Bible says that we accpt Christ as our Lord as well as Savior. That means that we are to obey, and not just try to grab toe good stuff, without doing what God requires of us. Anyway, those are my points.
Micah 6:8; He has shown you, O mortal, what is good. And what does the Lord require of you? To act justly and to love mercy, and to walk humbly with your God.
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So, if gay marriage is constitutional and as such all states must recognize a gay marriage from another state... does that mean that since gun ownership is constitutional, that all other states must recognize my right to carry a gun? they should, i don't see why not. if you own your guns legally and have them registered, then why not? if you wanna start a petition, like the gays did, i'll be the first to sign it.
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If homosexual behavior doesn't offend you as a Christian the same way stealing, lying, or killing does then you better check your salvation because chances are you left it behind somewhere trying to keep mankind happy instead of God. If you have the Holy Spirit in your heart then ALL sin should offend you and not be OK ...Says the "American Citizen Poster" who believe that HIS 'social club' is the only one that has a direct line to "Jesus' thought process"... You really ARE comfortable 'wallowing about in the muck of hubris and self-righteousness' that espouses your own personal beliefs, aren't you? You're SO SURE that YOUR (personal) Version Of The Bible is right for everyone, aren't you? You're SO SURE that Your (personal) Version Of Jesus' teachings are right for everyone- aren't you? You're SO SURE that The Word Of God has spoken to YOU in such a way that others simply "don't get it?"... aren't you? Sounds very much to me like God has spoken to you only through your own, personally-chosen "Social Club" filter. _______________ Your arguments only have validity IF your audience hears His Message- filtered through the narrowly-focused Fresnel Lens that shapes your idea of 'what should be right' for us all. Pardon me, but I'll wait for God Hinself to speak directly to me about such things, before I ascribe to your version of what My Country should represent. I don't trust You any more than I trust the Human Beings who conscripted you into their 'identity camp'. Satan lives (in some small part) within each of you... so why should I allow YOUR WITNESS to lead me anywhere? IMO, this thread is (and has always been about) about Equal Rights In America. It is (and has always been) a secular issue. Americans have systemically been denied rights that have taken for granted by the rest of us... and that fact is- by its very definition- un-American. Your personal biases to the contrary (be they based upon religious, ethnic or nationality-based), are now- and will always be- irrelevant. In short- your belief structure (and those like it) lie at the very heart of why the SCOTUS was required to rule against YOUR (personal) wishes. ------------------ It's not because we 'other Americans' aren't God-loving citizens.... .....It's because America isn't beholding to one singular version of what's right for all. Expect this: your narrowly-defined view of 'what's acceptable' for AN ENTIRE NATION will take repeated hits... all the way down to the core of what you want/believe. Because America is based upon plurality and consensus.... not autocracy or theocracy. You are simply yet another 'geek' for your particular religious doctrine- the same way Other Americans are 'geeks' for Buddhism, Paganism, Veganism, Islamism, or even Scientology. You all have equal sway/say, regarding what's right FOR ALL OF US. ...And I applaud the fact that you are not allowed any stronger voice than any other. _______________ In your mind, you are The Voice Of What's Right For All. In mine, you are Just Another Voice In The Discussion. I'm truly glad that the SCOTUS has given you no more voice in this matter than it has given me. I'd be profoundly worried, if Our Country was left to folks who placed their own religious ideologies above the concerns of the entire populace. IMHO, SCOTUS behaved with foresight and constraint on this one. A completely new set of Americans joined us, in the quest to give ALL Americans 'equal rights under the law.' ________________ Frame your opposition to this in any way that allows you to sleep at night. If you willingly choose to sleep upon a bed of prejudice and exclusion, I can't help you on your journey to find what it means to be an American citizen. On the other hand, I'll sleep deeply, knowing that today, other American citizens gained rights that I've been able to take for granted... (almost) since birth. I supported them when they didn't have you in their corner. Others supported My Family, 'back in the day'... when our rights as American Citizens were merely a "Subject of 'abstract intellectual debate.' For me, this is beyond debate... on any intellectual, abstract, academic, theocratic, or philosophical level.... An entirely new set of Americans have just gained rights that should have been theirs from the start. Either we are ALL Free and Equal... or 'America' is a 'pipe dream' yet to be realized.
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This is you clem, sorry. The Bible is extremely clear on what God calls sin. There is no getting around it. Ytown, Razor, myself and others have given very scripturally based arguments about why we think the way we do and the best you can come up with no matter how elegant your prose is boiled down to, 'man wrote that'. Which part? You've said yourself you're a 'born again child of Christ', the centerpiece of the entire Bible, but you don't believe what he's said is sin is sin? And we get accused of cherry picking? I appreciate where you're coming from from a human American citizen perspective, but in the eternal scheme of things (which is the only thing that matters) it is a dangerous thing to play fast and loose with the things that got Jesus hung on the cross.
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Interestin POV, Ted.... ...but it's still only one person's POV... based upon what HE BELIEVES TO BE RIGHT.
By the very nature of how (and why) this country was formed, it simply cannot (and should not) be the only philosophy that propels our nation's decisions.
America may have been forged by men who had Christian beliefs at the core of their interests, but they did not impose those belief structures upon the rest of American citizens.
On the contrary, they left room for other beliefs, other philosophies, other ways of seeing Life, when they wrote in the constitution that "All men are created equal."
I still live to that premise, even though your interpretation of Biblical teachings seems to suggest that 'your particular version of Christianity' trumps the rights of all other American citizens.
Understand this: whether I agree with you or not, this country was not formed under a premise that caters to what you, I, YTown or Razor thinks should be right for ALL.
The opposite of that what each of you seems to have in common... and is at the heart of my staunch disagreement with ALL OF YOU.
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On one hand, you seem to believe that you are right... and that others MUST see it your way.
On the other hand, I see it this way:
What I believe (and what I live by) is MY OWN BUSINESS, based upon MY OWN BELIEFS... and is not for the government to enforce or impose upon any other citizen.
Having said that, I'll also add this: Granting equal rights to gay Americans does nothing to infringe upon my rights to worship as I see fit, nor does it diminish in any way my personal relationship with Christ.
And if I'm to be judged by my 'social silence' on such issues as a citizen of this nation, so be it.
MY GOD does not give me license to cast judgement upon another. MY GOD does not tell me to castigate another for being on a different path to His Grace. MY GOD gives me the self-determination to live life as He would see fit for me, without requiring me to 'force others to see Him through my eyes.'
I haven't earned such a position/responsibility as one of His disciples.
Perhaps Your God has allowed you such license over others.
That's between you... and the version of 'Him' you've chosen to accept for your life.
It's not my place to tell you if you're right or wrong.
At the same time, I'm not ready to relinquish this nation's policies to the likes of either you OR me. That's why we'll probably always have a difference of opinion about such things.
I for one, am quite happy to live in a nation that allows us equal weight as citizens, while we hash out these issues.
Civics vs. Theology: two different things, with two different purposes. I can live with both in my life. I'm thankful that I live in a society that still allows for both to co-exist.
Your opinion may differ. I cannot help that... and I'm not inclined to convince you that you're wrong.
Apparently, that's where you and I differ in our opinions about our respective roles as American citizens.
I'm OK with that difference. You seem to not be.
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I have a question.
What do you think Jesus meant when He told us to take up our cross and follow Him?
Micah 6:8; He has shown you, O mortal, what is good. And what does the Lord require of you? To act justly and to love mercy, and to walk humbly with your God.
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To hear some of these politicians and religious leaders go on about it, you'd think homosexuality was a sin worse than slavery, or murder, or even lying. But according to the Bible no sin is any less deserving of God's wrath than another.
There are only seven verses on homosexuality in the Bible. All of them are found in the Old Testament or in Paul's manuscripts. Compare this to hundreds of references to economic injustice, wealth redistribution, accumulating wealth, etc. I've often considered a classical interpretation of the Bible to be at odds with modern day Calvinism Christianity and deregulated Capitalism. I do agree with you that too many are concerned with the accumulation of wealth and "stuff", when they should, instead, be helping those less fortunate. I also find it unfortunate that this who gay marriage debate has become one where Christians as seen as somehow hateful. I don't deny that some people are hateful towards gay people. I see them as simply one more sinner, just like the rest of us. It is not the sinner that is the problem, it is the sin. I do think that many everyday Christians do offer a piece of what God has given them to be used to help others. Perhaps we do not offer enough. I don't know. The Bible offers 1/10th as a tithe ..... but I believe that we are expected to help beyond that as well, if we are able. You imply that Jesus said nothing about homosexuality, but He actually did. He did not use the words specifically, but what did he say? Let's look: (and I had this all in my earlier post on this thread, IIRC) In Matthew 19: 1-9, Jesus said: When Jesus had finished these words, He departed from Galilee and came into the region of Judea beyond the Jordan; and large crowds followed Him, and He healed them there.
Some Pharisees came to Jesus, testing Him and asking, “Is it lawful for a man to divorce his wife for any reason at all?” And He answered and said, “Have you not read that He who created them from the beginning MADE THEM MALE AND FEMALE, 5and said, ‘FOR THIS REASON A MAN SHALL LEAVE HIS FATHER AND MOTHER AND BE JOINED TO HIS WIFE, AND THE TWO SHALL BECOME ONE FLESH’? “So they are no longer two, but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, let no man separate.” They said to Him, “Why then did Moses command to GIVE HER A CERTIFICATE OF DIVORCE AND SEND her AWAY?” He said to them, “Because of your hardness of heart Moses permitted you to divorce your wives; but from the beginning it has not been this way. “And I say to you, whoever divorces his wife, except for immorality, and marries another woman commits adultery.”Jesus said "one man and one woman", not "one man and one man", or "one woman and one woman". If anyone knows anything about Jesus, He was not afraid to turn social convention on its head. If he felt that a gay marriage was within God's plan, He would have plainly said so. Instead, he plainly says the opposite. One man and one woman, becoming one flesh. It cannot be any more clear than that. Also in Matthew, chapter 19: 16-19, Jesus said the following: Just then a man came up to Jesus and asked, “Teacher, what good thing must I do to get eternal life?”
“Why do you ask me about what is good?” Jesus replied. “There is only One who is good. If you want to enter life, keep the commandments.”
“Which ones?” he inquired.
Jesus replied, “‘You shall not murder, you shall not commit adultery, you shall not steal, you shall not give false testimony, honor your father and mother,’ and ‘love your neighbor as yourself.’”What is adultery? Well, Jesus said that even looking upon a (woman) to lust after her is adultery. By simple extension, this can also be expanded to any person looking upon another person to lust after them. Women who lust after men are not somehow exempt, and neither are men who lust after men, or so on. Adultery at its basic definition, though, is extramarital or premarital sex. It is any sexual conduct that is not within the bonds of marriage. So, if we accept this as a true definition, and I don't know anyone who would debate that basic point, and that marriage, according to Jesus, is between one man and one woman, becoming one flesh, for life, and that adultery is absolutely wrong. (no matter what combination of genders are involved) For me, I have only spoken about homosexuality because it is the "hot topic". However, many of my posts also speak about the rampant divorce rate today, people who accept lying and stealing as perfectly acceptable, those who try to create their own God while saying that they are Christians, by trying to tell God what to believe, instead of believing and obeying what God tells us to do. Man, I fully admit that I was one of the world's worst sinners. Jesus Christ saved me from that. However, in my old life, I was a liar, an adulterer, an isolator, a thief, and more. I broke almost every of the 10 Commandments. Many people would be shocked, but should they be? We all tell lies. It is often more expedient to tell a lie, rather than the truth. We all commit adultery if we follow the definition Jesus gave us. We have all stolen, whether a physical item, or an idea stolen from someone else. Napster showed how happily people will take huge risks of having their own property (their computer) ruined just so they can steal something. They called it "sharing", but it was stealing, pure and simple. I created a god that did what I wanted, instead of doing what God demands of me. I had actually managed to talk myself into believing that because of what Paul taught, that I could go and sin to my hearts content, because I was forgiven anyway. I had convinced myself that I did not have to change at all, and that God should accommodate me, not that I should obey Him. I could go on and on ...... but you get the point. I was in open rebellion against God. Fortunately, He brought me back to Him, and showed me His light, grace, love, and mercy. I certainly did not deserve it. I believe that we are all sinners, and that we will all have sin in our lives until we are free from this world. However, we should not plan to sin, and make a conscious decision to rebel against God's Word. We may slip, but God does not want supposed followers who violate His laws in a willful and rebellious manner. This is where I see the problem with gay marriage. It establishes a relationship that the Bible says is sinful, and tries to make it seem legitimate .... which according to the Bible, it can never be. I don't want to see anyone condemned, but those in open rebellion to God will, I believe, be condemned. The Bible says that we accpt Christ as our Lord as well as Savior. That means that we are to obey, and not just try to grab toe good stuff, without doing what God requires of us. Anyway, those are my points. Great post, YTownBrownsFan! 
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And what was it that Jesus said about homosexuality and gay marriage?
Christ is quoted at one point that God created people “in the beginning” as male and female, and that marriage is the union of one man and one woman joined together as “one flesh.” (Matthew 19:4-6 and Mark 10:6-9) When He discussed sexual morality, Christ had a very high standard, clearly affirming long-standing Old Testament law. He told the woman caught in adultery to “Go and sin no more.” (John 8:11) He warned people that not only the act of adultery was wrong, but even adulterous thoughts (Matthew 5:28). And he shamed the woman at the well (John 4:18) by pointing out to her that he knew she was living with a man who was not her husband. Cool, so if we're still going by Old Testament law as affirmed by Jesus, then I take it that you and other strict Christians are not eating pork or other forbidden foods like shellfish or those that mix meat and dairy (bummer, no cheeseburgers), not wearing clothing made of more than one material (so much for those cotton/poly blend t-shirts), planting fields with only one crop, not trimming your beard or cutting your hair, not getting a tattoo, working on the Sabbath, etc. I'm sure you guys are obeying all of those laws and the ones I didn't list, right? pssst Matthew, Mark, and John are all New Testament.
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I have a question for everybody. How is gay marriage any more of a sin than a Heterosexual who gets a divorce and then gets married a second or third time? The churches are full of people who got divorced (not due to adultery)then married somebody else, yet you never hear Christians yelling and screaming that this is so wrong.
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You imply that Jesus said nothing about homosexuality, but He actually did. He did not use the words specifically, but what did he say?
I didn't mean to imply that Jesus said nothing. He literally said nothing. We can extrapolate what we *believe* Jesus would say on homosexuality but we have no record on it ourselves. Even extrapolating that same-sex relations is adultery is sketchy because that implies a modern understanding of relationships. In the times of Jesus same-sex relations were often alongside married ones. There are just as many (if not more) pro-slavery versus in the bible than there are anti-homosexual. Before the civil war preachers used a literal translation of these versus to support slave ownership. In the 150 or so years since, preachers have "changed" the versus to mean slavery as a figurative rather than literal concept. If we are to take the homosexual passages in the bible as literal, then we should take the whole Bible as literal, including how one buys and treats slaves. If we do not take some passages as literal, then we should caution against taking ANY passages as literal. Cherry picking the Bible is building a God in the image you want, not in God himself.
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I have a question for everybody. How is gay marriage any more of a sin than a Heterosexual who gets a divorce and then gets married a second or third time? The churches are full of people who got divorced (not due to adultery)then married somebody else, yet you never hear Christians yelling and screaming that this is so wrong. They are both equally wrong. Really the only exception is when a christian is married to a non christian because God would rather see christians married to other christians and living a stronger spiritual life according to paul. yet for two christians to get divorced is to then be living in constant adultery. Of course people don't want to hear that. They don't want to hear that they are living a life of sin. Adultery or homosexuality are LIFESTYLES of constant sinning. It's not like you told one lie and then stopped. You are doing the same sin over and over again without remorse. Yet too many pastors are worried about the church coffers than leading their flocks as God would have them do so. Yet, Jesus was crystal clear on the matter: "But I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, makes her the victim of adultery, and anyone who marries a divorced woman commits adultery." To be fair to the pastor though what is he supposed to do when his nation views marriage in the same way as a happy meal from mcdonald's. our country no longers views marriage as something sacred or even something special anymore. instead it's doing everything it can to destroy the establishment of marriage. It doesn't matter if your married or not anymore because you don't need any reason at all to get a divorce. It's flat out disgusting. Now because some liberal judges have taken it upon themselves to reach beyond their authority and go beyond the written law marriage is not even just between a man and a woman. That just opens the door to all kinds of disgusting behavior in the future. It's only going to get worse as an immoral nations uses this precedent as a gateway to destroy the meaning of marriage even more. Lifestyles of sin are destructive and bad for society but the person who tells you that is not going to be very well liked because people like to live in sin because its easier that way.
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I have a question.
What do you think Jesus meant when He told us to take up our cross and follow Him? I don't think it was, "Govern the behaviors of others!". It's likely He meant govern yourself as an example to others, in the way His life and sacrifice lead by example. He surely didn't say take up our cross to hold over the heads of America. I think His cross symbolizes His sacrifice rather than His control over others.
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Your posts have always made me think that you believe America is, "The Great Satan".
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You imply that Jesus said nothing about homosexuality, but He actually did. He did not use the words specifically, but what did he say?
I didn't mean to imply that Jesus said nothing. He literally said nothing. We can extrapolate what we *believe* Jesus would say on homosexuality but we have no record on it ourselves. Even extrapolating that same-sex relations is adultery is sketchy because that implies a modern understanding of relationships. In the times of Jesus same-sex relations were often alongside married ones. There are just as many (if not more) pro-slavery versus in the bible than there are anti-homosexual. Before the civil war preachers used a literal translation of these versus to support slave ownership. In the 150 or so years since, preachers have "changed" the versus to mean slavery as a figurative rather than literal concept. If we are to take the homosexual passages in the bible as literal, then we should take the whole Bible as literal, including how one buys and treats slaves. If we do not take some passages as literal, then we should caution against taking ANY passages as literal. Cherry picking the Bible is building a God in the image you want, not in God himself. Your a bit out of context. The bible does not promote slavery. Yet, when it was written slavery was an everyday part of life in almost the entire world. It is only VERY recently in the history of the world that slavery has been cast down at least in name anyways. The Bible simply sought to address how one should live and behave in a world where slavery was the normal. It was the first recorded document giving slaves a right to fair and decent treatment. The old and new testament are pretty straightforward that homosexuality is a sin. The jews knew that flat out so they didn't need a 100 verses telling them that it was.
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HA! Listening to you Libthingys talk about God, Jesus and the Bible really shows your ignorance on how it all works.
Why not talk about rebuilding a carburetor or something else you know nothing about, it will make you look equally ignorant but at least you won't be making God angry.
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Arch, remember when you said how now that its legal, we should move on?
look at the ones raising a fuss, it ain't the people who support it. all over the news, in conservative ran governments, social media.
the majority of people-who supported it- have moved on. on to the next issue.
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They are both equally wrong. Yet preachers preform the weddings everyday. The couples are welcome in church. They are not looked down upon, nor treated differently, yet gay couples are 
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Your posts have always made me think that you believe America is, "The Great Satan". I'm sorry you feel that way. I don't. It is true to say that the Christians of America are in a war with the Devil to save the souls of its citizens from going to hell though. The simple truth is that if you are a Christian and you love God then you should naturally want to save your fellow man from being thrown into the Lake of Fire. I don't believe anyone who truly loves God can just stand by and watch his children seek the destruction of their soul. It's not out of hatred that action should be taken but out of love of your fellow man and understanding that this life is short but that its possible to have eternal life through christ. An inconvenient life is a small price to pay.
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They are both equally wrong. Yet preachers preform the weddings everyday. The couples are welcome in church. They are not looked down upon, nor treated differently, yet gay couples are I have also stated many times that I don't have much use for social club churches either. Just because I answer your question with what they should be doing is not going to make them do it. I can only tell you that the Bible shows both to be very wrong. Let man ignore the words of the Bible at his own peril.
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Clem I see where you're coming from but I disagree with you. The Bible does tell you how you should live. It does tell you what is sin.
A Christian's job is not to worry about making mankind like him. In fact its the opposite.
Galatians 1:10 Am I now trying to win the approval of human beings, or of God? Or am I trying to please people? If I were still trying to please people, I would not be a servant of Christ.
It is not an easy path to heaven:
Matthew 7:13-14 13 “Enter through the narrow gate. For wide is the gate and broad is the road that leads to destruction, and many enter through it. 14 But small is the gate and narrow the road that leads to life, and only a few find it.
Matthew 22:14 For many are called, but few are chosen.
If you love God then why would you not try to save his children from burning themselves with a life of sin?
Matthew 22:36-40 36 Master, which is the great commandment in the law? 37 Jesus said unto him, Thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind. 38 This is the first and great commandment. 39 And the second is like unto it, Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself. 40 On these two commandments hang all the law and the prophets.
It is out of love that a Christian should seek to save his fellow man from damnation not hatred. Standing by because you don't want to rock the boat while your neighbor lives a life bent on the destruction of their soul is not showing your love of God but rather the opposite. If you love God then save his children instead of letting them suffer hellfire.
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That concludes my sermon for this Sunday. Please enjoy the rest of your day =)
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Arch, remember when you said how now that its legal, we should move on?
look at the ones raising a fuss, it ain't the people who support it. all over the news, in conservative ran governments, social media.
the majority of people-who supported it- have moved on. on to the next issue. And why wouldn't they move on now? They have won their battle to destroy the family, made a sin the law of the land, taken down the Confederate Flag, and crushed the few remaining States Rights as they grow the Federal Government and devour the power the States once had. Wonder what they are moving onto next?
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I wish I could remember the exact words our pastor used today - as he touched on the SC ruling, as well as some other things going on in the world. Don't attack me (you, or anyone) please - if I don't quote him verbatim.
And before I try my best to get it right, even the 1 gay lady in attendance didn't take it personal. (and I didn't take it offensively, either)
Basically, regarding the s.c. ruling - he said "I've been contacted by members in the last 2 days about how to react/respond. On one hand, it's not our job to judge, and on the other hand, we are called to spread the word of God, as Christians. What we can't do is be judgmental or derogatory. What we can do is spread the word about God's love for ALL of us."
Again - my wording is NOT what he said verbatim....and in fact, it's missing some of what he did say.
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The Bible simply sought to address how one should live and behave in a world where slavery was the normal. "Look, guys, slavery is something that we have to deal with, so let's just say it's OK and ask everyone to do it humanely. OK, now that's out of the way, what's next? Queers? Let's just put down throw rocks at them until they're dead. Alright, what else? Paul? What do you have?"
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So, if gay marriage is constitutional and as such all states must recognize a gay marriage from another state... does that mean that since gun ownership is constitutional, that all other states must recognize my right to carry a gun? Do you not believe in state rights?
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This is why we have separation of church (religion) and state.
And the answer is as simple as bacon.
The government can make laws, religions can have their own practices.
But even though some religions do not accept bacon as food appropriate for consumption, we should not outlaw bacon.
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I wish I could remember the exact words our pastor used today - as he touched on the SC ruling, as well as some other things going on in the world. Don't attack me (you, or anyone) please - if I don't quote him verbatim.
And before I try my best to get it right, even the 1 gay lady in attendance didn't take it personal. (and I didn't take it offensively, either)
Basically, regarding the s.c. ruling - he said "I've been contacted by members in the last 2 days about how to react/respond. On one hand, it's not our job to judge, and on the other hand, we are called to spread the word of God, as Christians. What we can't do is be judgmental or derogatory. What we can do is spread the word about God's love for ALL of us."
Again - my wording is NOT what he said verbatim....and in fact, it's missing some of what he did say. that's a good quote. don't be derogatory. people need to listen to that.
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So, if gay marriage is constitutional and as such all states must recognize a gay marriage from another state... does that mean that since gun ownership is constitutional, that all other states must recognize my right to carry a gun? Do you not believe in state rights? We also have individual rights. In the hierarchy of laws, individual rights take precedence over states rights. There is no state to my knowledge that does not recognize an individual right to carry a gun.
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To hear some of these politicians and religious leaders go on about it, you'd think homosexuality was a sin worse than slavery, or murder, or even lying. But according to the Bible no sin is any less deserving of God's wrath than another.
There are only seven verses on homosexuality in the Bible. All of them are found in the Old Testament or in Paul's manuscripts. Compare this to hundreds of references to economic injustice, wealth redistribution, accumulating wealth, etc. I've often considered a classical interpretation of the Bible to be at odds with modern day Calvinism Christianity and deregulated Capitalism. This simply is not true.. If you are going to comment know your subject...Romans 1:26-27 (KJ2000) 26 For this cause God gave them up unto vile affections: for even their women did change the natural use into that which is against nature: 27 And likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one toward another; men with men working that which is shameful, and receiving in themselves that recompense of their error which was fitting.
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Can someone explain to me what the bible has to do with United States law.
My position has always been that they were not related, and I just can't get my head wrapped around the biblical references.
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