Again guys, Thank you again for the replies and advice. I was going to write a draft email yesterday then re-read and possibly send today. - This one wasn’t going to be nice and was going to include the contact info from her previous club coaches (all of whom coach varsity teams). I was going to raise discrimination as the only reason why she wasn’t placed on the team. - Discrimination because she doesn’t have family alumni and discrimination because we haven’t made any donations yet. - A couple lower caliber players that made the team have these attributes on their sides.
However, I came home and my wife and kid essentially begged me not
To do it. They noted that it wasn’t my decision, my high school experience, etc. I told my wife that we can’t let the kid get treated differently at this stage because it could carry over to the academic side of things. - Should that happen, should my kid start receiving what we feel are unfair grades, and experience more exclusion from school teams/clubs. Then yes, we’ll let the administrators know our feelings and at that point, will switch schools.
For right now, I want to demand an investigation, but my wife and daughter really, really, really, don’t want me to. - And they’re right, it isn’t my choice at this point.
On the flip side, the soccer coach has been incredible. We met the guy three days ago and he’s already given my kid his cell number and has been encouraging her to follow her passion and to join the soccer team only if she really wants to. - Everything you’d want in a coach. It’s the kid’s decision but I’m hoping that she’s up tomorrow and wanting to go to soccer practice.
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