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People bring up the number of "massage therapists" as evidence that he was doing something wrong. Would it change your thinking if you thought of them as job interviews? If you were considering bringing in a full time massage specialist, would you hire the first candidate? Would you hire the 50th? Or keep trying them all out?? C'mon bro.
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...I like to be thorough. Seriously, it'd be about finding the right fit. I definitely wouldn't hire one that I thought might try to falsely accuse me of sexual assault.
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All I'm saying is this, he went to women that he didn't even know were certified massage therapists. (There is an article out there with his deposition in it) What you're describing is just as close to prostitution as it is to sex assault. So not only are some saying the women lied, but now they are potentially hookers? Is it possible they are hookers? Yup it sure is possible. But they are out there, names on a complaint. So if they were hookers, committing illegal acts, do you think they'd come forward? Better yet, if a woman is a hooker and gets forced to do things she doesn't want to do, are you saying "she asked for it"? Should the charges be ignored for that reason?
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Has there been any discussion of these ‘massage therapists’ former clients? Is Watson the only former client that’s been discovered? I have to wonder if any of these women have other, no name, clients that have had ‘release’ during their sessions? I’d think the investigators would have tracked down some other former clients… right?
I’ve not read every document or listened to/read all the press. Can anyone answer?
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As far as I know some of the 22 are not licensed and the assumption is they might well be likely to offer rub n tug services. Some are licensed and are not in any way associated with anything but professional massage services. The inclusion of some non licensed individuals seems to be an excuse to tarnish them and also theicenses therapists.
Bottom line is we don't know. If it goes to civil trial we will maybe find out more.
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Bottom line: whether or not any are/were prostitutes has no real bearing. An unwelcomed or forced interaction is still what it is; sexual assault and borderline rape. Has there been any discussion of these ‘massage therapists’ former clients? No. Nobody from the team seems to have spoken with anyone other than Watson's lawyers. They intentionally did not contact any of the women, and the women likely would not have shared info on past clientelle.
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J/C Even if they were tracked down, who would admit such a thing on the record? The massage therapists social media/"business" accounts would be a place to look for evidence and establish patterns, but it appears some of them have scrubbed their accounts. link
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JC The one thing I haven't seen mentioned is the burden of proof in civil cases is much lower than that of a grand jury or criminal case. He could very easily be "innocent" and still lose the civil cases. Not so much the grand jury. A grand jury doesn't have to be unanimous. A civil case still needs that, but doesn't need to be beyond reasonable doubt. It just needs to be some level of doubt.
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Swish]A guy is maintaining his innocence, and you want him to stop doing that? You want him to stop denying the things he didn’t do? Show remorse for something he isn’t guilty of?
Yea, I wouldn’t do that either if I was innocent. Here is a lesson that comes with age and experience. I’m not suggesting that you don’t have it but just so we be clear sometimes in life you can chose to be smart or you can chose to trying to be 100% right. First of all we don’t know if he’s innocent. (“things he didn’t do” or not) Not even a grand jury can establish that with 100% certainty without proof. So that argument goes out of the window. Secondly maybe he in his own eyes sees himself innocent but these 22 women and maybe some others don’t think it’s so clear and obvious. It’s all about what we think is involved in the word ‘innocent”. There are many times in my life when I have felt that I’m innocent but instead of fighting for my “honor” I sometimes take the smart road and apologize so we can move on. Third when 22 women accuse you of wrong doings you’re probably not without fault. Maybe Watson think it’s normal with massage and “happy endings” and maybe he thinks that he’s paying for these “services” but that doesn’t mean the women agree with his conclusions. So from the first moment he could have misunderstood their mutual agreements. The reason I and many others suggest he should settle the cases is because that’s the smartest way to move forward. Instead of fighting in a court house for months maybe years he can end this media circus and start to focus on his future as being a Brown QB. It’s can also be important, believe it or not, to make peace with these women. Leaving so many unsatisfied women behind you without solving these issues can in a worst case scenario create a situation when these women or people in general searching for some sorts of revenge. Never underestimate peoples willingness to get the score even. Finally DeShaun Watson, or maybe I should jokingly start to call him Mr Happy Ending, has all the money in the world to solve his future so he can move on in peace. Invest a couple of millions and let this s h i t go away FFS. Be smart. Create the ultimate Happy Ending… LOL Life isn’t always fair and sometimes we have to accept that. That goes for both Mr Happy Ending and these 22 women. This isn't wisdom, it's compliance with unfair norms. He shouldn't humble himself or settle if he is 100% innocent. To be honest at this point, sticking to his guns and proving his innocence is the best way out. If he can do that there will be no black marks (question marks) left on anything he accomplishes. If he settles, his entire career will be tainted by that. And fans will despise him. The key sentence in your answer is “if he is 100% innocent”This is where you and I have different views. I and many with me doesn’t see him as totally guilty or 100% innocent. From a legal standpoint regarding the risk of being sent to jail he’s so far innocent but these 22 civil law suits is still left and can in a worst case scenario cost him a fortune both economically and with the chance that more unsatisfactory information about his behavior will see the day light. Or maybe if he wins all 22 cases they will not cost him anything at all except cost for lawyers and so on. The probability of him losing some of the cases is probably rather high if you listen to experienced lawyers. His own lawyer is in a win and win situation so I shouldn’t count him as an fair adviser and expert. His career is already tainted by these law suits and nothing will change that these allegations will follow him and the Browns as long as he’s a NFL player. Unfairly? Probably. But that’s how the (social)media works in these days. People will think that where is smoke it’s probably some fire. So what can he gain from fighting his innocence? In a best case scenario he can probably maintain his initial stance without having to over and over explain himself and he will probably win a few people over to his side. Maybe the media will be more kind to him. It can boost his self confidence but apart from that his personal situation will probably be the same as it is today. Some will believe him others will not. The other road to walk is to end all media drama and settle these cases. 22 women can move on and both parties can put this sad story behind them. That’s worth a lot. He can still maintain his innocence but admit that things could have been handled better. That will satisfy a majority of the public opinion and probably most of the media. He will have a few days of media storm but after that it’s probably out of interest for the vast majority of people. But the most important thing is that he don’t have to show up in court. Ask any lawyer and they will tell you that’s a lottery where the total truth often isn’t always part of the negotiations. So once again. Take the good with the bad. Buy yourself a costly insurance but move on. He can easily afford it and it will not economically affect his future life. See it as a lesson in life and avoid to do the same s h i t again. 22 legal law suits should tell you that something went totally wrong, if not you’re probably stupid or misled by the wrong people.
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Has there been any discussion of these ‘massage therapists’ former clients? Is Watson the only former client that’s been discovered? I have to wonder if any of these women have other, no name, clients that have had ‘release’ during their sessions? I’d think the investigators would have tracked down some other former clients… right?
I’ve not read every document or listened to/read all the press. Can anyone answer? Just thinking out loud here, but might that be the reason no indictments came down? Maybe upon investigation, it was found that some/all of these women were in fact providing a happy ending to many clients.. If that's the case, is that the same as saying they asked for it?
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Bottom line: whether or not any are/were prostitutes has no real bearing. An unwelcomed or forced interaction is still what it is; sexual assault and borderline rape. Has there been any discussion of these ‘massage therapists’ former clients? No. Nobody from the team seems to have spoken with anyone other than Watson's lawyers. They intentionally did not contact any of the women, and the women likely would not have shared info on past clientelle. My questions were not in an attempt to victim blame. Let me make that clear. It was more out of curiosity for more of the overall picture.
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Not that you weren't thinking before, but you might be starting to think.
The point is there are a lot of factors that aren't readily seen.
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Bottom line: whether or not any are/were prostitutes has no real bearing. An unwelcomed or forced interaction is still what it is; sexual assault and borderline rape. Has there been any discussion of these ‘massage therapists’ former clients? No. Nobody from the team seems to have spoken with anyone other than Watson's lawyers. They intentionally did not contact any of the women, and the women likely would not have shared info on past clientelle. My questions were not in an attempt to victim blame. Let me make that clear. It was more out of curiosity for more of the overall picture. Sorry Port, if I came across sounding as if you were victim blaming I'm sorry,, Didn't mean to say that.... But you brought up a good question
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Seriously, it'd be about finding the right fit. I definitely wouldn't hire one that I thought might try to falsely accuse me of sexual assault. Rich athlete good. Accusers are gold diggers and liars. And then you wonder why women are afraid to come out and tell the truth about the rich and powerful. This isn't the first time you've undermined the women this way.
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J/C Even if they were tracked down, who would admit such a thing on the record? The massage therapists social media/"business" accounts would be a place to look for evidence and establish patterns, but it appears some of them have scrubbed their accounts. linkYeah, that would have to be nefarious, right? It's not that they're receiving threats and nasty calls from people like you can see undermining their credibility making them out tpo all be liars and hookers.
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[color:#99FF99]The key sentence in your answer is “if he is 100% innocent”
This is where you and I have different views. I and many with me doesn’t see him as totally guilty or 100% innocent. From a legal standpoint regarding the risk of being sent to jail he’s so far innocent but these 22 civil law suits is still left and can in a worst case scenario cost him a fortune both economically and with the chance that more unsatisfactory information about his behavior will see the day light. Or maybe if he wins all 22 cases they will not cost him anything at all except cost for lawyers and so on. The probability of him losing some of the cases is probably rather high if you listen to experienced lawyers. His own lawyer is in a win and win situation so I shouldn’t count him as an fair adviser and expert.
His career is already tainted by these law suits and nothing will change that these allegations will follow him and the Browns as long as he’s a NFL player. Unfairly? Probably. But that’s how the (social)media works in these days. People will think that where is smoke it’s probably some fire.
So what can he gain from fighting his innocence?
In a best case scenario he can probably maintain his initial stance without having to over and over explain himself and he will probably win a few people over to his side. Maybe the media will be more kind to him. It can boost his self confidence but apart from that his personal situation will probably be the same as it is today. Some will believe him others will not.
The other road to walk is to end all media drama and settle these cases.
22 women can move on and both parties can put this sad story behind them. That’s worth a lot. He can still maintain his innocence but admit that things could have been handled better. That will satisfy a majority of the public opinion and probably most of the media. He will have a few days of media storm but after that it’s probably out of interest for the vast majority of people. But the most important thing is that he don’t have to show up in court. Ask any lawyer and they will tell you that’s a lottery where the total truth often isn’t always part of the negotiations.
So once again. Take the good with the bad. Buy yourself a costly insurance but move on. He can easily afford it and it will not economically affect his future life. See it as a lesson in life and avoid to do the same s h i t again. 22 legal law suits should tell you that something went totally wrong, if not you’re probably stupid or misled by the wrong people. The thing you might be overlooking is that it takes more than Watson to settle. Each of the women would have to agree to it also. They might have astronomical demands or are just willing to gamble on a chance that a jury will give them an astronomical verdict. If the proliferation of the gambling industry in our economy is any indication, Americans are willing to gamble. If you were innocent and the women demanded 100 million dollars combined or more, would you give that much to them?
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And it would make some people feel better to try and insinuate that 22 women are all lying and Watson is the beacon of truth.
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A civil case still needs that, but doesn't need to be beyond reasonable doubt. It just needs to be some level of doubt. Not just "some level of doubt". But you know that. It's the propensity of the evidence which mean more likely than not.
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J/C Even if they were tracked down, who would admit such a thing on the record? The massage therapists social media/"business" accounts would be a place to look for evidence and establish patterns, but it appears some of them have scrubbed their accounts. linkYeah, that would have to be nefarious, right? It's not that they're receiving threats and nasty calls from people like you can see undermining their credibility making them out tpo all be liars and hookers. I do find it interesting that the contrarian on this issue would more willingly imply removing a web site is an indication of someone being guilty of something.. In comparison to someone being accused by 22 people of wrongdoing. Now... I'm sure that's probably not the case and it's simply that the contrarian is leaving all options open as possibilities... But there's much more ink offering speculation on how or why the 22 are lying than the other way around. On phone, so apologies if that doesn't read clearly.* tried to clear it up a bit.
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Seriously, it'd be about finding the right fit. I definitely wouldn't hire one that I thought might try to falsely accuse me of sexual assault. Rich athlete good. Accusers are gold diggers and liars. And then you wonder why women are afraid to come out and tell the truth about the rich and powerful. This isn't the first time you've undermined the women this way. You're reading more into it than was written. I was responding to a hypothetical question with what I would hypothetically do. I've constantly said that I don't know who is lying. If wanting the facts before judging is undermining, then I'm Urist McUnderminer. I haven't jumped to the same conclusion as you. I've tried to keep an open mind. I've tried to empathize with DeShaun a bit more because frankly it's easier to put myself in a dude's shoes. I have a hard enough time trying to understand the women I'm around everyday, let alone a bunch of women I've never so much as seen, let alone actually met. It's not a matter of respect. It's a case of there's a ton that I know I don't know about them. While I've gone to get messages, I've never been a masseuse, and neither have I ever been a woman. This is an instance where the you've never been (insert minority/category) statement applies. You seem to be the one making assumptions. "Rich athlete bad, Accusers are honest," seems to be your story. Are you "undermining" DeShaun/the Browns?
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You say you don't know but seem to repeatedly imply they are liars, some type of hookers, are only in it for a money grab and an assortment of things that shed a negative light on these women. It's only obvious that if someone who claims they don't know actually means that, there would be a balance to their opinions that head in both directions. That hasn't been the case from you thus far.
All I've seen is how the fact there are 22 accusers doesn't mean anything. Make an inference that canceling their accounts is somehow a nefarious act. Insinuating they are hookers.
You see, making a disclaimer is only as good as what comes after that disclaimer. And making such a disclaimer doesn't even come close to the content of your posts on the topic.
And yes, with 22 accusers I do think he's guilty of at least some of the things he's being accused of. I'm not naive enough to try and convince myself that 22 women are just all making everything they're saying up. But then I've never tried to disguise or hide that by putting out some false disclaimer to say otherwise.
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J/C Even if they were tracked down, who would admit such a thing on the record? The massage therapists social media/"business" accounts would be a place to look for evidence and establish patterns, but it appears some of them have scrubbed their accounts. linkYeah, that would have to be nefarious, right? It's not that they're receiving threats and nasty calls from people like you can see undermining their credibility making them out tpo all be liars and hookers. It could be nefarious. Their side had requested a warrant to get Watson's social media with the justification that he could destroy evidence. This implies that there was some understanding that the social media accounts were evidence. To then get rid of their social media accounts could be equated to destroying evidence. They could have disabled notifications and changed phones without "scrubbing accounts." Are you saying that it couldn't be nefarious? On what basis? I'm just looking at possibilities.
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You're real good with all this "could be" and it always works in portraying 22 women in a negative light.
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You say you don't know but seem to repeatedly imply they are liars, some type of hookers, are only in it for a money grab and an assortment of things that shed a negative light on these women. It's only obvious that if someone who claims they don't know actually means that, there would be a balance to their opinions that head in both directions. That hasn't been the case from you thus far.
All I've seen is how the fact there are 22 accusers doesn't mean anything. Make an inference that canceling their accounts is somehow a nefarious act. Insinuating they are hookers.
You see, making a disclaimer is only as good as what comes after that disclaimer. And making such a disclaimer doesn't even come close to the content of your posts on the topic.
And yes, with 22 accusers I do think he's guilty of at least some of the things he's being accused of. I'm not naive enough to try and convince myself that 22 women are just all making everything they're saying up. But then I've never tried to disguise or hide that by putting out some false disclaimer to say otherwise. DeShaun Watson could be the devil in human flesh. The accusers could be saints. Does my saying that make you feel better? You say you are not naive, but the belief that 22 women that you've never met couldn't be lying seems rather naive to me. You're right that you've never tried to hide your opinion. But, not hiding them has no bearing on their accuracy or validity.
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